I had been seeing my 29 year old Greek-born boyfriend for over 6 months until Saturday-over 3 months by LD (go to school 4 hrs away, family lives closer). We took a vacation(not 1st) from California to Seattle by car that ended terribly. We had fought over dinner the night before we left for home. I was visibly upset and thought it the most adult decision to not talk to him on the way home so I wouldn't say something hurtful. He asked me about 2 hours into the drive what was wrong, I discussed it with him, but since I had no corner to retreat to to gather my composure, I said few wordsto him. We did not resolve anything. Out of my anger, I did insinuate that I was going to leave him off at home and possibly never talk to him again. We arrived home like after 4 am. I asked him to let me leave for my family's home, but he insisted that I stay over cause it was dangerous to drive home. So when we went to bed, the last thing I wanted to do was lay next to him. He felt like it was extremely odd that when I laid down, I laid the opposite way. I realized this and after five minutes turned around. The following morning, I got ready to leave, he settled what we owed each other for the trip, and told me that since I wanted to break up, he wanted to break up as well. In the past, I had threatened him about breaking up, but I never went through with it cause I really thought we were great together. I explained to him I did not want to break up, but he again insisted I did and stood by breaking up. He treated me very harshly and refused to give me a chance saying over the last 3 months he could not tolerate my moods or bitching. Out of defense for myself, my only grandfather's death made me hyper-sensitive about things I would normally not be. He knew this, but refused to accept this. The next day he called up to apologize for his behavior, but said its best we stay parted and I should have nice holidays, go out and meet new people. When I asked him for an honest chance at rectifying things, he refused. the next call I made to him, he said I needed to make things up to him, but would not give me any way on how to. He said to move on and regretted call me. He is leaving for a trip for the holidays to meet his best friend (a guy) which I admit I had a problem with cause it occurred over the holidays and my B-day, and although it took me several weeks to put the matter to rest after he finally told me the specifics, I came to terms with it. I asked him to think things through about breaking up, like he had asked me before and did, but he refused. We have said we care about each other a lot, and one mistake I said at the last dinner on the trip was that I was investing time and feelings into him which troubled him. Since we have no mutual friends, don't live in the same town, and he won't honestly listen or give me the single chance I deserve to make it up to him, how can I show him how much I appreciate him? How do I make it up to him? I just want 2 be with him
If he won't give you the chance even when you gave him the chance before it is not worth it. a relationship needs both people participating and working at it... if only one person participates and does all the work then it is not going to work out anyways and you will not only be mentally,physically and emotionally exhausted you will drag it out longer and when it is all said and done it will hurt so much more the longer you stay together and shouldn't have. stop texting and calling and if he texts or calls don't respond or pick up... cause now with you begging him to be back with him he feels like he has the upper hand and he has you wrapped around his finger and he is not getting the chance to miss you with you still trying to contact him... ignore him and see what response you get.
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