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We broke up...now what?

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romanticist1xX (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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so me and my *gulp* ex broke up over the weekend after having a reallyy amazing relationship for 5 months...and it was really sudden, I didn't see it coming at all.

he said he didn't have time for a girlfriend now that he had to take care of his family, get a job, and think about college. I understood but he did it over text (it felt so cold..like he didn't have the heart to tell me over the phone) and he said he loved me but he couldn't have me. and that struck something in me--i still love him but I don't at the same time for putting me through this whole thing.

and now he's not talking to me--i tried to talk to him and it seemed like he was angry. and now it's awkward, and I don't understand why because I felt like I knew him so well. he told me he'd loved me EVERYDAY and the last time I'd seen him was for christmas at his house :\

so should I wait for him (he'd told me no that I shouldn't, but there's a chance that we'd get back together) or forget about him?


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Hercules
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Hercules      When: More than a year ago
Just live your life. If you're single at some point and he comes around and wants to restart the relationship, and you still love him, go for it. If you find someone before then, go for it.
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k02652      When: More than a year ago
i just went threw that. try giving him some space and let him come to u. do not call him do not contact him in any way. or you can ask him if he and you can still be friends. let me no how it goes
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BirdofParadise
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BirdofParadise      When: More than a year ago
Just forget about him and don't talk to him for a while. Enjoy being single and keep yourself busy. He clearly needs space so give it to him, cut off all contact and don't answer the phone if he calls. That way you are respecting his wishes and helping yourself to move on. Plus, if he really does love you then not being able to see your talk to you will drive him nuts and he will reconsider the break up. It worked for me :)
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