i fell in love with my best friend 5 years ago. just moved in with him 4 months ago and have no choice but to stay. I still love him but I know he doesn't love me in return. when I try to get over him and move on he flirts with me and gives me false hopes. I really want to move on and leave my love for him in the past. can anyone tell me how?
You'll never get over this guy if you're living with him.
Ideally, you need to move out, and not contact him at all, and ignore him when he contacts you.
If that's not an option, work 3 jobs to get money for a new place. you'll be too busy working to see him very much, and in a few months you'll have enough money to move out.
Thanks hun, but I only wish it was that easy. I'm 17 and a foster child and I have told him to stop flirting. it also makes it harder because if I leave his house I go to DCYC a a lock down group home. but I do appreciate your opinion - 10 months ago
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Hang in there 'till you're 18. Good luck. - 10 months ago
Ive done that to and that doesn't stop him thanks for your answer - 10 months ago
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Unfortunately, Atomizer is probably right. As long as you're living with him you probably won't get over him. Over time though it should hurt less and less due to exposure. - 10 months ago
tell him that you like him. that's the best way for you to know his feelings, and either start a r/s w. him or just be friends. don't be afriad of rejection, cos you tried. or you will never get out of this cycle of liking him. and it hurts a lot. and move out. if he asks why, just smile and shrug," well, you know, I just needed change of enviroment so, I guess moving out is a pretty good idea." if he likes you, he will stop you.
Tell him to quit flirting with you because it's giving you false hope that isn't a very nice thing to do. If you're trying to get over him and if it's really that hard, then you may want to either move elsewhere or put your foot down and tell him to stop.
This is very destructive behavior and unfair. Even if he doesn't love you, he should have the decency to not flirt with you and give false hopes. The only way is to tell him to stop. Still, if I were you, I would look for a way to move out as soon as possible.
The only way is to tell him to stop giving you false hopes, and stop being so selfish! Tell him if you don't love me then stop flirting with me and let me move on.. if he doesn't want to then I think he has abit of feelings for you..? what do you think you should do.. ask yourself. do you really want to move on and leave your love for him in the past? If yes then you can't just let him be like this.. be strong.. If his not yours, he was never meant to be.
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