do I really have to just let him go and realize things are over or should I let tis little flirty game contiune I guess I rather have him in my life some way then no way and I don't want him to get over me (even thought I think he has) after only 2 weeks (we were together for 8 years) but he really is what I want and I need to know what is the fastest best way to get him to come back to me and our kids( well he sees his kids all the time) so I guess just to come back to me? Please Help I'm losing my mind and it makes me sick to thing of him with another girl and I keep thinking he's gonna find a serious relationship and that's it there is no hope for us at all.
if you guys have kids talk to him say for the sake of the kids stay cause this is not only hard on me but hard on them to but put that in a way you would like and don't worrie never worrie and don't flirt with him tell him how you truly feel and you never lost the feeling hope this helps botom line...TALK TO HIM god bless
i dnt think you shud let go.. cos you all ardy got child lerh.. I think you better near wif it for th sake of th child... husband & wife quarrel is veri normal de! better than miie!D:
You poor thing, I know exactly how you feel. I can't get over a particular guy either, I really want to get him back but I'm afraid to be too full on for fear of pushing him away, but then if I'm all nonchalant he might think I don't want him.. Its really hard, I can empathise
Make sure that you do not contact him, or give him a bad time for the break up, actually do the opposite, agree that it was a good idea... then leave him alone for a while, see if he calls you... now you need to start doing some fun things for yourself, go out with friends, dress yourself up, kick those heels off girl :).. I know you probably don't feel like it, but if you want this guy back, these are the things you need to do... aslo try to remember what it was HE fell in love with you about you... what has changed? Start working on that. Now if you look happy and he thinks you have moved on, then it will make him think again, and ask himself questions, also if he doesn't hear from you, he will wonder why and start to miss you. Start looking after you, eat well, get out for walks, go out with friends, even consider trying dating. Just leave him alone for a while. On the days he sees you to see the kids, make sure you are dolled up, but busy and happy. But I think at the end of the day, the key is in you realising what has changed between you, and making sure you give him the break he needs.. best of luck.
I am willing to do what even it takes but I am just so scared that he will move on and meet someone else so you think this will make him want to come back or just finalize the fact that its over - 10 months ago
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What it will do for you is one of two things. It will help you to find your confidence again without him, just in case he doesn't come back, but will also show him you don't need him, which will make him think. If he still loves you even a tiny bit then he will see what he is missing out on. Just try to do everything you can to feel better about yourself. I will add more to this... - 10 months ago
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If you have heard nothing in the month, then call for a friendly chat, no relationship talk. You want him to bring it up not you :). Chat for a bit, and if its comfortable, ask if he wants to catch up for a cuppa in public for like 1/2 hr-hour. If he says yes, then go, but dont' stay any longer, and only talk fun stuff. Leave and dont' contact him, he will contact you.. and if he doesnt' wait a week and ask if he wants to hang out somewhere for the day.... - 10 months ago
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If he agrees to this, then make it a fun filled day. NO RELATIONSHIP TALK. Don't bring it up, but if he does durign these times, let him know you are willing to listen, but lets have fun at the moment. Then drop it. Its likely he will contact you, if he makes arrangements go for it.. one thing you must not do, until you are settled back into a relationship is have sex.. get what you want first.. best of luck. - 10 months ago
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Ohhh... if he does meet someone else, don't panic and start contacting him etc.. just leave it be, you have the upper hand, you have history, just keep doing this stuff.. he will come back if it is meant to be. - 10 months ago
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Thanks so much its just really hard to do because we have kids and today when he called I really didn't answer and he told my son he wanted to talk to me and he asked why I was being so short our little boys was haveing a really hard time with it and it breaks my heart its so hard when kids are involved and I feel like he should have tried hard to fix things for there sake - 10 months ago
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I know its hard, I have kids myself... try to be at your happiest when he is around, trust me on that :)... maybe he is going through a bit of a crisis... I know you will feel angry with him sometimes, let yourself be, but don't reveal it to him as you will not have a chance then. If he wants to talk to you, sometimes you will be too busy ;) but when you do... be friendly... best of luck. - 10 months ago
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Just think... if he sees you happy, and you don't bring stuff up, don't you think he will question to himself why :).... he will think things like.. oh wow she has moved on quick, doesn't she love me anymore? etc.. now they are the questions you want to create in his mind :) - 10 months ago
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