I wanna make my ex fall for me again?

He should chase after you! You did your part. You don't need to do anymore, now its time for you to sit back and relax. not saying forget about him, because right now, that's impossible but let him come to you, be patience, just know something is going to happen. Again let him have his space, I wanna text and call my ex to to tell him how much I love him, but I'm not going to, besides, my ex knows I love him, he's not a dummie when it comes to me expressing my love to him, but I feel that my ex is going through something...i know he loves and cares about me, but I'm going to give him his space. ur ex know how much you care for him, he's not dumb and I think its kind that he told you the truth that you should date other guys. he's not leading you on. He might just want to do his own thing right now, but sure enough if you give him space, he will be coming back to you. maybe he wants to date other girls, guys are weird, they mess up things with a great girl to date trash, but reality is ur a good woman and treat him soo good, he knows that, but give him space because if you don't you probably willd rive him away...space will draw him back to you once he's more mature and realize that ur the one for him...

Sounds like you need to go into Emotional Rehab! This guy is using you. You haven't been together for 4 months, but yet, you're doing so much for him...and you're open for him if he wants. What young guy doesn't like a scenario like that? You're his servant, and you're overdoing it, which will not make him need you as a girlfriend anymore than he does now (which is nil). Leave yourself open for someone who will appreciate the generosity that you are giving to him (but don't do so much until the relationship is solidified in your mind). He's not appreciating it. And as for being drunk, he knew what he was doing. Please...He's soiling you. Don't let him get away with it. Distance yourself.

Sounds to me like he loves you, but since you do so much for him he might feel like he is less of a man for not being able to do as much for you. He knows you would be a good life partner, but he is just going through the phase where he wants to make sure you are the right one. He broke up with you to get space. Since you haven't been giving him that space he has no chance to think things over, start to miss you, and start to think that he was wrong for breaking up with you and actually wants you back. You need to give him a lot of space right now. Go little to no contact and only talk to him if he talks to you first. He will see that you are starting to be an independent woman and that will attract him back to you. See right now you are acting very "needy" toward him. This pushes guys away after they have broken up with you. Trust me he will come crawling back to you if you do this for a while. Good luck.

ah ur sooo genrous and kind 2 him why he's saying and I quote "you deserve better"probably becuz the fact he admires you and is like now why am I with a lady so generous so loving but yet I don't feel as if I'm making her happy ect.basicly he wants 2 feel satisfied/appreciated and obviously he's not feeling that ...try and lower ur standard a bit and try tellin him this I wanna spend time with you more and if he says where 2 you tell him its up 2 you suprises me or tryin hintin 2 him something you really want don't tell him let him get it and feel proud that he's doing this stuff for you ...just some ideas take it or leave it.

okay so pretty much I no what your going threw and it really does suck! period. but your to in love with him and he's using it to his advantage to use you in anyways that he can (including dating you for a day so he can hook up with you). you need to turn things around and stop being the needy one make him come to you. first off you need to stop telling him you love him even if you do he'll wonder about it for days thinking he did something wrong. start talking to other guys and have fun with it, it's really hard I no but you need to give it a try. do it when he's around to so he'll no that your life doesn't revolve around him anymore. become his friend ask him how he's doing and let him no your doing great when he ask's. he told you himself that you shouldn't love the guy well guess what he's probably right. here are somethings you cando to make sure it's easier to let him go (for now;)) don't talk to him first; just smile when you see him say hi and keep walking; let him no your doing great, having fun with friends etc.; and basically try to avoid him as much as possible so you can get over him. and once you are sure that your feelings for him aren't as strong as they were before, that's when you make the chase. be sure before you go in for it you have a re-bound someone you can use (that sounds really bad but it does work) okay so now is the time you do everything you did before, ask him out on a date to go dancing or something let him no what he's missing out on. then when you guys are clubbing or something and he's really horny from you rubbing up on him all nigh and he wants you, leave him with a kiss on the libs maybe a little more then that (blue balls or something) then just walk away and go home. wait for him to call you to go out then and then he's already on his way to being hooked by you. now look who's in the palm of your hand:) now do work girl:)

okay so I know I'm only fourteen but I went through the same thing. I met this boy when I was ten and we dated for two years then when I was twelve I lost my virginity to him and then he f***ed my bestfriend three months after. we broke up and got back together and did this about a bajillion times and now we haven't dated for a year and a half yet here I am still in love with him.him and I don't talk for the longest time and then start talking , have sex , and then stop talking and this happens like every three months. I know I'm only fourteen and your way older than me but I still know how it feels. my advice to you is , change your state of mind. the only way you are ever going to move on is if you cut off contact from him completely.every guy can change if the right girl comes along , and every girl wants to be the girl that changes him . and not trying to be mean or anything but you obviously just aren't that girl for him or else he wouldve already changed. you can't keep running back to him and f***ing him hoping that he will change and fall inlove with you . you have to have some self respect and realize that he's the one that's missing out . and one of these days he might realize that he lost a really great girl.the only way you will ever get over him is if you stop talking to him , seeing him , or anything else . because the second you talk to him or see him all the fealings are gonna come back. try dating again and try to keep your mind on someone else. just a suggestion.

Hi there,

Do you have an update? I am curious since I am in the exact same situation.

Give him space, he'll see what he's left and come chasing after you again.

Hey girlie! I am in somewhat of the same situation and its soo confusing, recently me and my ex were getting along great. I love him and he loves me but recently he's been acting distant and not really telling me what's going on? and I'm scared to find out why he's acting strange, so now I'm leaving it alone, I'm kinda moving on slowly but then again giving him space, that way he can think when he's and find out what he really wants you know?i cooked for him, let him spend the night and take showers etc, I don't know if that scared him to see that I am a real woman that's there for him and only him but I know I didint do anything wrong but to cater to my guy...so now its been 2 days since we haven't talked..he texted me yesterday and said what's up but I didn't respond...im not going to for a while until he comes chasing back to me and shows me that he really misses me and that he wants to make this work before it too late :)