He broke up with me, 2 days before new year's. We had a really good relationship except for the last 2 weeks. We were fighting a lot and it was partly his fault for making some decisions that upset me, and partly my fault for over reacting to his decisions. His friends moved in with him about a week and a half before we broke up, and that caused problems. They are only staying there for awhile, until the college semester starts up. But he changed when they were there, he'd make plans on top of our plans, he'd be rude and act stupid. He'd drink and party even though he said he didn't like it.
And I overreacted because even though he was being a jerk and acting foolish, he was doing to because his 2 single, party animal jerk friends were there. He was showing off and it was wrong, but I'm sure I could have handled it better (not arguing constantly).
But yea, we broke up. He told me that it has nothing to do with the fact that his friends were staying with him. And he said that he couldn't give me a real reason why, except that he was following what his heart was telling him, for us not to be together right now.
I'm being patient, not calling or texting him. I'm going to give him space and time. and a week or so after his friends move out I'm hoping he changes his mind. I really do love him and I'm not just lonely...he's a good man and the one I want to be with. What can I do? Will waiting help? any opinions? suggestions? advice? I'd really appreciate it, thanks.
Your ex shouldn't be changing his stance towards you because of friends he has staying with him, have a talk to him and see where his priorities really lie.
hi, I think he is lying to you. I know you love and care for him deeply but he needs a taste of his own medicne... meaning you need to go out on a double date with your girlfriend and let him find out... jealousy is good and what you are doing is good (not calling texting him etc) because "the art of missing you" needs to set in... believe me... love is actually like a game. since you said you are waiting for him is telling him you are weak, don't be weak or a follower. be the leader... I hope this helps you, good luck.
i say just give him time to think! if you guys are ment to be then he will come back to you so I say wait once in awhile txt him and ask him how he is but not alot, once a week. maybe he will see that you care and want him back.even nothing happens then for get it your way better off
Honestly I think your making excuses for your ex. you didn't over react & he was making bad decisions. & I think seeing his single friends had something to do with your break up. I think your ex saw what it was like to be single, & he missed that. but most importantly you shouldn't wait for a "jerk" like him to realize what he's missing out on. I understand you love him & want him back but are you sure a "jerk" is really worth your valuable time?
I do make excuses for him & I know he shouldn't have treated me like he did when his friends were around but he's not a jerk, I mean we've been together for 2 yrs & he changed when his friends came around. it's wrong but I feel like I can't throw 2 yrs away - More than a year ago
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The decision is up to you so if you feel you can't throw 2 yrs away good luck to you. - More than a year ago
I'm not sure it's that. we dated for 2 years. and he was very caring and loving. and his friends don't get laid or any action. the only one that did was him, from me. but thank you for your opinion. anything else? I'd appreciate the advice and comments - More than a year ago
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Well from experience guys get bored. I had that happen to me recently. Sleeping with the same gil for so long, the same activities the same every day thing just the same in general, they get bored and wanna adventure. I really do believe that he saw .... - More than a year ago
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