So I dated my ex-boyfriend for almost 2 years about 6 months ago. I have "hooked up" with guys since, but haven't dated anyone. I get really jealous when he is "with" other girls, as does he with me with guys. But when we hang out we argue, and I realize why we aren't together. I would still do anything for him, and he would do anything for me, but why can't I move on? And why is it so hard to watch him? I have recently found a guy I would like to try to pursue.
But all I keep thinking is that what if it doesn't work with the new guy, do I really want to be totally FINISHED with the old? I love my ex to death, but we argue, and he says the most hurtful things sometimes! What do I do?
Update: In the beginning, I meant to say I broke up with him 6 months ago!!! Hahaha sorry I was caught up in the moment!
8 months ago
When a guy says hurtful things, it's because he is angry about his loss. He wants you back and you want him back. How much more is needed? Go out with him. He loves you and you love him back? Just date him. Maybe he's shy, so why don't you go for it. Good Luck
If you are truly in love you need to be with him! but are you really "in love" or just lonely and wanting a serious relationship? Are you just in a fantasy land thinking about the good things in your ex relationship and not remembering the ugly moments that made you break up? Finding someone new is always the best way to make an ex disappear from your mind.
Also, finding a new set of friends that aren't associated with your ex can help avoid you seeing him with other girls and vice versa. or hanging out in new spots instead of the places ya'll used to go
I'm still crazy about my Ex but hanging out with new people and returning all (most) of his "memorabilia" has helped.
You should give the new guy a chance. Maybe you are looking to hard to replace the old boyfriend. Don't compare the two. It's like buying a pair of shoes, when the old pair get worn out, buy new ones. It sounds as if you are ready to end it, but are afraid. Take a chance, you might find out there are better one's out there.
Two years is a long time to be with someone and it takes time to get over them. Was he your first love? If so, that makes it extra hard because your first love will always be special.
You're not with your ex anymore because you guys realized you weren't right for each other. You can still care for, want the best for and be concerned for him without being with him. Ya know? It may be easier if you decide to cut all ties to him for awhile so you can focus on getting over him and moving on. As long as you stay in close touch you'll probably continue to second guess yourself... The only way to break that cycle is to end it for good. Best of luck to you!
Take your time moving on is hard to do. you were with this guy for a while. that's for advice for you. if you need more advice message me I have been going though a lot of relationship shit this year. - 7 months ago
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