Me and my ex still talk every now and then, which is very unusual for me. The only reason I still talk to her is because I'm still in love with her. How can you tell if she might want to try again? What should I look for? She very obviously wants me to be in touch, how can you tell if she may want more?
The reason we split up: She say's I remind her of her first love and that relationship sounds like a nightmare when she talks about it. But I'm nothing like him, I treat her like a princess, and I treat her with respect. I'm nothing like that prick.
this sounds like she is afraid to FULLY committ to you. Look for things like the way she looks at you when you speak to her, hug her and call her. You cannot force her to see that your not like her ex. Sooner or later your gonna get tired of waiting for her to see this. Love or not. You need to make a decision. do you want to stay and wait or move on and let her follow you? before you answer those questions, know that every time you make a decision, your giving something up
If you want to get her back you have to figure out what it is about you that reminds her of him. If you really are better then him and treat her better then him then she will come back (unless the reason she gave you is not the real one). But most likey there is something you are doing he used to do that is bringing back bad memories for her and she is now associating them with you. I have a bed relationship with my mom and whenever I meet someone that reminds me of her I can't get along with them, but if they stopped doing these things like my mom I would get along with them fine.
I suggest giving her some time and space from you so she can start to miss you and all the things she likes about you. Then get a new look, a new haircut and new clothes so next time she sees you you look like someone else. Also, in this time work on the yourself, fix the things about you that you don't like. So hopefully next time she sees you she thinks of you and not her ex.
How much time? We spoke a few days ago for the first time in a few weeks. I'm really surprised that she still talks to me, most of the time when you get dumped you stop talking for a good while. I'm not sure when to make my play - 9 months ago
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Usually it takes a month of no contact. After about 2 or 3 weeks they start to miss you so by the time a month rolls around they are happy to talk to you. If you have already had a month of no contact then you should invite her out for coffee or something small. And make sure to be the best you can be so she can see all your good qualities and forget about her ex. - 9 months ago
I think you should ask her if she wants to get a bite to eat or something. Nothing that will put a lot of pressure on either of you. If all goes well, take it slow. Start talking and see if she drops any hints that she misses you. If she calls you and not the other way around that is a big one, she wants to keep in contact with you. If you love something, fight for it.
But see she did contact him. She called him and that was the first step. A lot of girls don't make the move to asking back out someone, they want to be asked out themselves. They will leave little hints but never come out and say "I think we should date again". Just my two cents. - 9 months ago
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