Is She Comin Back?

I'm going to have to say not...I use to be in a long relationship very similar to yours. My ex and I were together for close to 4 years and he had the characteristics...In the beginning it was tough-It hurt so much inside which proved to my own heart how much I loved him. As time went by my ex served as a prime example of the type of person I DO not want to spend the rest of my life with.

I realized I never ever wanted to be with someone that has anger management issues and in a relationship where we would turn one another into monsters would be completely unhealthy for the both of us. I acknowledge him as a living person and through our rocky past history I know I needed it. It forced me to open my eyes as an individual and not be so naive. Through this relationship I have grown up and came out a better person in general. Also, just because your relationship ended doesn't mean your a terrible person...

It just means you deserve someone who's better for you, as well as for her...seriously just because you guys broke up doesn't mean your not going to work out and be completely happy with someone else...It actually means YOU will be so much happier with another person...There will be another person who may never bring out that monster in you..who knows? However, I tip my hat off at you for owning up and admitting your faults. Thats the first step for inner growth...

Yes, it sounds like you're both discovering what you need to do to enjoy life and each other. The fact that she's telling you everything means that she's still open to you.

It's good that you've acknowledged your problem and are working to fix it. I'm sure that she appreciates the time you're spending to improve yourself, and even if your relationship with her doesn't work out, the next girl you date will appreciate your efforts as well.