He walks away making me look like the bad person..

some males are scum, you found one, now you've learned what they act like, the signals they give, stay away from males like him - my girl friend cheated on me, but I still stayed with her, she beat the hell out of me and gave me a message just like yours, I told her the truth, I loved her. I found out she was cheating on me, so I asked her to be honest, she wasn't and got angry at first but then confessed, and later, the same thing happened to her as did to you - since I was military, I did what I knew best - I drove to her house, found him beat her, put a pistol to his head and told him to get out or die. He left, haven't heard from him since.

Then again, I don't care if you hate me, I'm loyal, if your my friend, girl friend, family, hurt me in some way and ever need help, I'll be there, even if I have to crawl from my grave. That just who I am.

Why not just roast smores togeather or have a romantic movie night. Watch a romantic movie and cuddle. That could make you both feel better

I told you he wasnt worth it. I'm sorry to hear that... he over reacted... that's pretty messed up. Are you okay though?

sounds like he doesn't trust you. That's a HUGE red flag. I recommend staying away because you will live a miserable life and divorce will happen.

Seriously you need to find a man that will love you and trust you. Everyone deserves that hun. :)

Its looks like to me you are trying to shy away from the real problem that is at hand. Its true what you said was pretty touching to him, but who cares. You said you feel like you are being controlled, wake up lady you are being controlled, just read this passage over to yourself.I'm not trying to be rude to you, I just honestly care, because I have family members and friends that are females with the same problem. He might be a nice guy an all that, the love of your life. Lets cut the BS. Breaks up with you, basically for no reason. Well, There was a reason, and that is so he could justify his mistakes by trying to figure out your mistakes. He does want the best of both worlds and youare baiting right into it. Its all a game. I been there done that. You are the only one that can fixed this problem before it gets worse. I hope that I wasnt too harsh on you , its just I hate to see or hear about a woman being used like that.

i cannot even imagine all this things you said for myself..jesus christ! my man cheated just resently and I found my self asking what to do and what not to do but I ended getting the advice to end it all up..as for you,you obviously didn't cheat because you won't say this in this blind lembo here if you did,id try and make yourself ready for what's to come,well you already broken up with him so that's it,the next thing you do is cut ties emotionally and physically and do not ever talk to him again until you are well adjusted to the fact that you guys just cannot get along...take note,my friend broke up with his girlfriend saying she cheated but he told me he just do not really love her enough and he can't find the nice way to do so,so he invented it all up and act as if he was hurt because she cheated and it was her fault the broke up..but he knows she could never do that..thats what happened to you girl wake up!

wow. sounds sort of like a situation I am in and I also don't know what to do because it turns out that I am the bad person here too.

but no, I don't think you were wrong at all, you felt it in your heart, you said it... he should accept it that is how you feel about him at the moment and you were just upset.

i wish you both the best of luck getting back together and working things out.

Sweety, its a typical guy move, they always make us out to be the bad ones and they the victims. honestly, I know you miss him and want him around but as you can see its not working out. Its hard, but if you really want answers to your qustions, IGNORE HIM. Cut off all contact, if he really does love you he will go out of his way to make things right. Don't take his texting and calling as a sign he still loves you, you said he's a cheater. He just wants to keep you around because he's taking advantage of the fact he knows you love him...for us females, our emotions are our biggest weakness. Yes, he obviously has feelings for you hence why its hard for you both to move on. But the feelings are only there because you haven't given enough time to heal. He's angry because he knows he's wrong and has too much pride...show him you won't stand for his controlling ways. If its meant to be, it'll come back. Good luck:)