Okay so I had been going with this guy for about four months and about three weeks after sleeping together he slowly stopped calling and hanging out with me. I pretty much took that as the 'peace out' and left it at that. Now he had quit his job at the clinic we worked at so he could take another job, but it didn't work out so he got his job back at the clinic. I didn't even know until he walked into the office which was horrible. It was really weird the first day and I just decided to be polite when need be so it wouldn't be too awkward since we have to work together and have mutual friends in and out of work. However, by the second day, he was being all touchy feelie with me (stroking my back or touching my leg), but nothing beyond that outside of work. He was only that at work. So what should I do? Should I talk to him about it or just ignore him or continue to be polite and distant? I'm not really over him because I really like him a lot, but he basically blew me off so... yeah how should I approach this?
Ladies, I just don't understand why do you beat yourself down over the obvious? The way you might consider approaching it is being honest with yourself first, because you are the one that is allowing it to go on. It's either you want in some how form or fashion that you want to be with him again, no matter what. Or the simple most easy thing if you don't want him is be cool at work, but at the same time keep your hands off me. On the street you might get a wave.
Yeah we had the 'talk' about it. I was more worried about it being more tense then it already was since we work together and have many mutual friends. It all worked out once I was straight up with him though. Thanks - 8 months ago
approach it politely but do you want to know what I think,i think he's not into you .i was in the same situation, he probably knows you still like him and he's taking advantage of that.i know you still like him now ,but trust me later on when you look back on this situation you'll think what an idiot you were for letting him feel on you like that.
just be nice and ploitel kinda keep your distance. always look cute. and maybe be a little flirty every now and then, not too much though. just make sure he sees that your life is going well. don't make any move to hang out or talk outside of work though. I'm sure he will eventually come crawling after you!
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