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How do you get over it?

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adorkabletmtm (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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By it, I mean a break up. I believed I was truly in love, apparently he wasn't. Love is a two sided thing. How do I cope with all of this?


Update: My view,
Yesterday, Friday 13.
Day me and the person I "loved" broke up.
Today, February 14.
Valentines Day
AND My Birthday.
I feel so alone.    9 months ago

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joey1989
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joey1989      When: 18 days ago
simply find some one new to make you happy.
as much as you think you need him you dont.
keep your head up and move on.
main two ways to get over some one is to replace them or let time kill you interest in him.
i recommend replacement.
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bujji
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bujji      When: A month ago
just keep going... u'll get ur soulmate oneday for sure.
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JT1990
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JT1990      When: 6 months ago
just know that you are right. love is a two-sided thing. and if he didn't feel the same way, it was not meant to be.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
rebounding works for me
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Pinkaholic
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Pinkaholic      When: 4 months ago
Time heals all wounds. Then you meet someone else twho makes you forget about your ex and then you wonder why you were so distraught in the first place.
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kaykayz      When: 4 months ago
know that if he isn't the one for you that there is somebody better out there for you and know that you're single you can have fun and be open to meeting new fun and interesting guys.. maybe you'll find the perfect boyfriend that'll love you twice as much as you love him ;)
keep busy. avoid long convo's with ex and avoid talking about your relationship with him.
Do not hang with ex. Work on you.
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im_erika
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im_erika      When: 5 months ago
it hurts
im hurting right now
i start to think
"im a good person. I try to be. so why is this sh*t happening to me?"
we broke up a WEEK before our 4th year anniversary
and 2 weeks BEFORE my bday. *sigh
what a KICK in the face.
im actually just trying to surround myself with good friends.
but in the end.
its just me
dont worry.
were in the same boat
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
Valentines Day will do that..it will be over in a few hours. It only make it worse because its valentines day. Go out with your friends and have fun on your birthday. Its WAY WAY WAY WAY too early to be over him. Give it some time like MONTHS. TIME is the key. But go out and celebrate your birthday and who knows you may meet someone! Do something to get your mind off it
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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: 9 months ago
If you feel like crying, then cry. If you feel like screaming, then scream. But, I suggest the best revenge. Change it up!

1. Change up your wardrobe.
2. Change your hair, or hair color
3. Go out and party and have fun.
4. Enjoy being single.
5. Make a list of everything that was wrong with him.
6. Erase all of his contact information
7. Change your number, because he will call you again.
8. Stay off of myspace, facebook etc. Don't check that stuff and don't change your page drastically. It will only cause him to contact you.
9. You don't want contact with your X while you are trying to get over him. You will end up in bed with him and regret it later because he will treat you badly.

Hope this helps you move on! There are tons of guys out there and I'm sure you're a great girl. Have confidence in yourself and be strong! KRL
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
One word: TIME. Give it a few months. Time heals all wounds. Just go out and have fun with your friends and you will meet someone when you least expect it.
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