How do I get my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) to come back to me before its too late?

What do you mean how do you get your ex back?
He's not a dog
And keep in mind no matter,what you do,no matter how hard you try.
You can't make someone love you
When they say they don't Love you move on.
It's their lose,and maybe they'll see the mistake they made
geee why is this sooo DAMN difficult

Listen, if he's been feeling this for a year, dropping contact with him would be TERRIBLE. It will just help him get over you easier. He may have only come back to you because you're like a drug to him that he's addicted to. He could also just be insecure about the relationship and testing you (the way girls would a guy). In all of those cases, dropping contact is a terrible thing to do.

He doesn't love you because you don't do enough for him. He might have unreasonable expectations but figure out what they are and then decide.

Do you fulfill him sexually? Are you a supportive girlfriend? When he has problems, do you help him find solutions (rather than focus on feelings)? Figure out the way he likes being communicated affection. You could be saying you love him when he wants you to show you love him. Do you give him space when he needs time to think or force him to spend it with you? Basically, just figure out all the ways that you could be a better girlfriend and he'll probably want to be a better boyfriend.

Do nothing and wait for him to do all the work and your relationship will end. Call him and get together in person. Tell him you believe in the relationship and want to make it work (with his help). Ask him how you can be a better girl friend. This is a partnership after all... you both have a responsibility in making it work.

okay this is loooong but I think it'll helpp alot:

stop contacting him and move on.
i know it might be very hard to do but keeping contact will only make you want him more...
and if a guy says "i love you but I'm not in love with you" that means he cares about you
but doesn't want to be in a commited relationship with yoou. and you deserve someone who will
want to be 100% committed to you. not someone who only loves you as a friend.
and it may souns cleeshay (spellcheck) but going out with ur friends willl really expose you to meeting new people and/or guys. but don't do this til ur really ready to meet new people. rebound relationships can be heartbraking simply because they are tricking ur brain.

so my advice overall is to stop talking to him and who knows , he might even realize how wonderful you are. you've heard the old saying right ? ''you don't know what you've got til its gone" that might hppen to him. - but don't count on this. focus on something important like friends and family. or go to the spa. love is a wonderful thing but there are so many other things in life that are just as goood. the guy who will really love you is out there. you jus hav to wait for him. good luck :)

There is nothing you can do. Do not call, text, email, or anything. If he wants you back, it has to be his own choice. By him already telling you how he felt for a year, he clearly suggested that he is not interested. You are going to put yourself in negative territory if you contact him. I know it hurts and you love him, but you have to let him go. Do something that you love to do and have a fabolous, girl pamper day to get started.

let him go good dogs come bk if he doesn't come bk he's a bad dog and you can get a better one.

honey, he told you how he felt now respect it and let him go. you can't make someone fall in love with you. he loves you as a friend and nothing more. if you love him the way you say you do you will let him go and move on. go out with your friends, have fun, and you will meet someone when you least expect it. give the guy credit for having the guts to tell you the truth before he hurt you. don't put him in an awkward spot by pouring your heart out when he already told you how he felt. you can't change that. but you can be friends with him and still talk with him. give it time and you will move on and find it easier I promise.

maybe set up a date to see him face to face, maybe over coffee so you can see how he really feels about you and go from there.

ask him why and how he feels. what is it that is making he feel this way. keep in mind you can't change a man, once he's made his decision let it be. hopefully he will come back to you. but right now it's hard to say. just do it as soon as you can and hopefully he won't vanish. but before you go, try to work out what you're gonna say to him and just tell him basically you have strong feelings for him and you really want to be with him and leave it at that.

theres really not much you CAN do. I say no contact. that's the only way he is going to miss you and hopefuly realize how much he wants you in his life. sorry you are going through this, I feel your pain :( but don't let him bring you down, go hang out with friends, meet other guys. I swear it helps.