She is unable to let him go. She still has feelings for him, which she's made pretty clear. She contacts him every so often and lately wanted to meet up.
He agreed and said he'd get back to her later. She contacted him again when he didn't. They decided to meet up next weekend. I mean..it's a bit of a trek for him to make to meet her.
If he's not interested in her and knows that she still has feelings for him, why won't he just tell her outright that it's over? I don't get it.
Why do people do this? Is it because he feels guilty for rejecting her? Because honestly, she broke up with him but only because she was hurt.
Update: UPDATE:
So she told him that she might not be able to meet up next weekend and he asked her why not. And that it was basically up to her.
Maybe he still wants to be friends with this girl. Have you talked to him about it at all or do you kinda just let it go. My fiance was talking to his ex when we first started dating she she was trying to hook up with him because she still liked him... I told him if you want to be more than friends with her then leave me now... if you would like to just be friends with her then go for it. I wasn't going to stop him from whoever he wanted to be friends with. So ask him... if he wants to be friends with her it's okay.. let him be :)
I just think it's selfish of him to lead this poor girl on. She obviously has more-than-friends feelings for him, yet he insists that they be friends and even encourages it? - 10 months ago
He might just be staying in contact with her, because he doesn't wanna hurt her feelings.....the meeting up with her, may just be a friend thing. friends do meet up with friends, it doesn't neccissarily mean theyre interested in eachother. But then again, he did have feelings for her once, so he may still be meeting up with her because he misses the way things use to be btwn them, and wants to see her again? - 2 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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