We broke up on a bad note... I didn't quite understand how she felt after we did it but after the break up I tried calling her and just getting an answer out of her but it never happened and she just left me. And it's been 6 months after. I feel like crap, like the flow of my life is out of order and there's moments when I still think about her. It's like all my charisma became drained. How do I grind though this and get back on track?
Hey buddy, Well I think maybe your having a little of trouble with this still because you didn't feel like you got the closure that you needed from her. You know to say the last word, to get confirmation from her that it is really over and why.
6 months is a relatively long time to still be feeling in that whole depressed cycle. So maybe instead you need to give yourself that closure. Know that you did the best that you knew how at the time in that relationship and be able to move on.
Know that in time all things shall pass and that you won't feel like this forever. That you were probably meant to learn something from the last relationship so that you can then have a better one in the future.
hope and belief are things you should do your best to integrate into your daily life. Be happy man, you get to have all your freedom back again! enjoy it while it lasts =)
Pick up a hobby, preferably something that requires concentration and that you can do with friends. (knitting is SO not an option here) That's pretty much how I started paintballing. It'll help ease you thru the tough times.
Everyone feels out of place after a break-up. It's a strange feeling, and in some cases it brings out the better of you in the end. And your more wiser every time with who you pick. Simple answer, you will gradually get out of it and after a while you will realise you don't need to feel like this. You'll be fine. Trust me.
Mana burn. ouch. do what you have to, go with the flow. if you feel like shit, accept it. listen to angry music. wear more black. don't smile so much. go through a stage if you need to. eventually you'll realize there are more fish in the sea, and your life isn't ruined.
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