My boyfriend & I met here in my hometown 2 yrs ago. He then got a good job offer back in his hometown so we both moved there. However, his family & I don't get along, I have a hard time finding a job in my field out there & want to move back home but he has a contract so he can't leave & doesn't want to leave just yet since he likes his new job so we decide that I'd go home & continue our relationship long distance where we both concentrate in our career & then move somewhere else we both like later on in a yr or so. However, last month, we had a fight on the phone & out of anger I said we should break up since it doesn't seem like it's working. A week later, I called & apologized but then he said maybe we should take a break from each other, he said he needs some time to think. It's been a month now since we last spoke to each other. I didn't call him cause I don't want to seem pushy., but he doesn't call me either. Does it means he doesn't love me anymore? What do you think of this situation? I still love him & want him back, but what else can I do? I already apologized and everything. I mean I don't think I did anything too terribly bad that is unforgivable right?
He's got someone else, that's my thoughts been there done this before almost exactly the same thing in fact. That's a very high possibility of why he didn't call you.
At least that's why my ex wife didn't call me back when we did the same thing. She had gotten back together and was doing her ex boyfriend.
So to each there own but I think it's done. And probably has been.
I think he still loves you. You guys was together for to long not to. I say call him. Tell him how you feel and talk things out. Just be totally honest with him. As for the long distance relationship it will be hard but if you guys love each other it will work out. Good Luck!
crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You shouldn't just end a relationship because of anger, maybe he does want you back but is too focused on his job, or other things...try calling him who cares if he thinks your pushy or not, but if you love someone that much you'll do anything to get them back right?
You didn't do anything unforgivable but you probably opened Pandora's box, so to speak. If you were together for more than 2 years then I'm sure he still loves you. But the reality is that your relationship is going to be very hard to maintain unless you both really want to live somewhere different than your hometowns in the near future. If neither of you does but you'd be willing to because of the relationship then you already have a huge strain. Distance makes it even harder to remember why you're together, you know? If you really want him back then you have to consider moving there OR working even harder to maintain the long-distance thing. You might want to call him and suggest that you come out for a visit. See how the visit goes...if you're both still strongly in love then make it work. Otherwise, cut the ties and get ready to move on. Good luck!
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