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Am I over my ex-boyfriend? Or is this a mind game?

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(Age:18 to 24) When: 7 months ago

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Because I felt bad being a total ***** to my ex-bf after he canceled meeting up with me, I asked him if he'd like to meet up again and that'd I'd buy him ice cream as a gesture of apology. He agreed (he likes sweets like me). I was relieved that he wasn't mad at me. Since he always visited me, I agreed to visit him.

Only I found myself not wanting to make the effort (several hours into cold New England blech) to see him, like I normally would. In other words, I don't want to see him that badly. So I was about to cancel on him by asking him to visit me (he's a bit lazy). In any case, he said that he'd visit me, which is fine, too.

It's so strange. I almost feel guilty that my feelings for him have faded away. It's not that I don't want to see him. I do miss his company. He's a really funny, nice guy. I just don't feel for him like I used to.

Is this a sign I have gotten over him?? Is this normal? Or is it a mind game?

I mean...I can't believe it!!

Update: At the time when he canceled meeting up with him, I got mad because I still had strong feelings for him...obviously. It was only after not contacting him for a few weeks that I've been feeling differently.. 7 months ago


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Acuzio (Age:18 to 24) When: 7 months ago

Your feelings for him are fading. This is a good thing, because you don't want your ex to rule your emotions. It sounds like the break-up has been good for both of you, since your personalities don't match.

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