My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for a few years now, we went out for 3 years during high school...he knows that I have moved on, I never contact him, because personally I don't find the need to ever speak to him or see him again. The thing is he's ALWAYS contacting me, talking about the past and what not. I have no feelings for him what so ever, but I just can't understand why he can't get over us! He makes me feel really bad about myself, and that I'm a horrible ex girlfriend for "throwing it all away". I'm so beyond our relationship though! It was in high school, and were graduating from COLLEGE in a month! I try to be as clear to his as possible, but he doesn't get it! Its almost like an obsession for him! I'm one of those people that thinks it never works out to be friends with an ex, well not according to him..The thing I don't get is most people would get the point that someone doesn't want to be with them, and after hearing that most people would move on with their life and put the past behind. He actually Imd my away message telling he was dating some girl that reminds him of me! What the hell!? I have even blocked him before throughout the years, and what does he do CONTACTS FAMILY MEMBERS OF MINE! Its like there's no escape from him! Is this abnormal what he is doing, and what should I do/say to him?
He probably had the best times of his life with you and just can't get over you. Depending on how your relationship was he probably feels he needs you in his life. Some people said stop answering his calls. I don't agree with that. Just be straight forward with him. Tell him you are not comfortable still being in any relationship with him, even a friendship. This will not only help you solve the problem but it will also hopefully help him finally get over you and move on and get on with his life.
hes one of those people that thinks you can be friends after a relationship, you just need to tell him that doesn't work that way... if he doesn't stop, you need to take legal action
This guy is obsessed. Tell him that whatever feelings you had for him at one time are completely gone. It is over. Say those three words. Tell your family members that they are to instruct him that they, nor you, want to talk to him any further. If he still keeps it up, you might talk about legal options to keep him at bay. The guy sounds like a prime candidate for being a stalker. Good luck!
STOP taking his calls! DON'T RESPOND TO ANY OF HIS COMMUNICATION METHODS! If he contacts your family members, tell them to ignore and don't accept his calls. EVERY single time you speak to him, he automatically thinks he still has a chance! It doesn't matter what you say to him. Change your phone number, get a new email address, get a new IM profile. If you don't take any of these steps, I think you like the attention.
dont' assume it's all about you maybe he just wants attention or he is having troubles in his life and this is his way of expressing it then just tell him if you dont' want him in your life anymore instead of leading him on
He is obsessed with you and you might want to be careful, you never know he can be dangerous! If you already told him how you feel, than just try your best to ignore him and tell your family members to do the same because that is 100% not normal! He's a stalker!
You need to sit him done face to face so he can see that you are serious and tell him that it is over. It is an obsession and I'm not saying it will but it could even resort to violence. He sounds like he may have a serious mental problem. Hope this helps.
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