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How to make my ex pursue me more ?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
Category: Break-Up

I know this sounds really immature.. but long story short, my boyfriend had hurt me several times in the past.. and he asked for several breaks because he felt that he doesn't love me as much.. and last break started a month and it's still going on.. though he texts me randomly, and tells his friends that he misses me and he finally appreciates me.. and he will come to me after he is done with his exams .. I still love him , and I would want him back.. but I don't want that once he comes to me I ll be like " sure , OK , lets get back " and everything's okay .. no I kinda wanna "torture" him a bit .. and make him pursue me more and actually put some effort to get me back .. what do you guys think I should tell him when he ll come and ask for another chance ? I don't wanna accept but in the same time I don't wanna say that I don't want him at all ..

Please help me :) thank you !
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    xpertadvice
    4 months ago
    awsome ...

    make him feel that you are really really happy and have moved on

    and he dosnt bother you

    post some hang out pics on fb with some of your gal friends and a few with a handsome guy friend

    make sure the pics are great and jazzy look the most beautiful as much as you can

    he will regret leaving u...


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    4 months ago
    Just no head games. Make your intentions clear and succinct. It's much easier for us when we know what you guys want and what you're thinking!

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    • Doug8796
      4 months ago
      I concur. My ex most likely is giving up on me right now, but I have a plan to get her back. We are going to have to start over again as a new relationship.
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Okay well guys don't change, so if he's blown multiple chances before he's only going to continue to do so.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I know trust me .. but I gave him so many chances and he blew them all .. I just wanna see how much effort is he willing to put for me :) that's all
 

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