Me and my ex went out for about 3 years and about 6 months ago we broke up because he said we fight too much.

This guy has problems you can't possibly fix, but you shouldn't have to deal them either. Fortunately he's no longer your problem. Don't accept his money or his phone calls and he'll quit treating you like his therapist.

Both of you still have feelings for each other, but aren't being completely honest with either yourselves or each other. The actions speak louder than the words. He told you about another girl knowing that you'd be jealous. He was testing to see if you have interest in him still, and by always talking to him or meeting with him in person, it shows that you are not truly over him.

I suggest you tell him that you don't want to talk any longer if he isn't interested in making the relationship work again. If he says "no" or calls you again without trying to work out your issues, you need to delete him from your life. That's right, block him from your phone, facebook and so on. Move on by not knowing what is going on in his life. Find another man if he doesn't want to fix the broken things between you.

he sounds like a genuinely nice guy, actually. the way you feel is natural, and it's likely that you're upset. you want to be mad so you don't hurt. maybe he really did feel that you's fought too much. just because he doesn't want to date you doesn't mean he wants nothing to do with you. like he said, he loves you but he's not in love with you. he interested in how you feel and how things are going for you, where as most guys would be like f*** that bitch. either way, it doesn't sound like he's playing games. I'd say take advantage of the situation, and be his friend. after 3 years, you should at least have that much.