How do I get my ex girlfriend back?

umm. yeah. In my opinion you shouldn't talk to her roommates and you met through them. She isn't over you and at the time she just doesn't want to deal with it. but when you 're talking to her friends she still hears it all. exactly. I totally agree with her on that. you may not agree but I'm sure lots of girls would. I think she just wants her space, don't stop talking to her and just be there for her. things will work out.

She is confused. Leave her alone and don't talk to her roommates. They are feeling caught in the middle. Disappear for awhile. Don't let her see you or talk to you. It will make her mind wonder, how can he live without me? I took this advice from several people and it seems to work. They hate when you aren't bothering them. They like the attention even if they say they don't. Just leave her alone. You can find other things to do and other people to talk to. Start going out with friends. Go places you would never go before. This too will bug her. I hate playing games, but this is one of those times. Let her know you are happy go lucky and just having the best time.

Leave her to sort her own head out. You can't make her want you back.

Look, when a girl says she doesn't want to hear from you anymore it means you f***ed up and real bad too. You are way past the point of no return. Show her respect by doing as she wish's and leave her alone.

If you need more closure you need to right her a good bye letter to her. It should short, sweet and RESPECTFUL. Remember this will be the last thing she hear's from you and if you want her to ever take you back you want her to have a good final impression. Avoid sad or negative statements... or statements that convey negative emotion. Say that you know you have to move on, and you wish it wasn't so hard. Wish her luck, and thank her for the good times. And then leave her alone for a good while. If she wants you she'll come back. But honestly you've pushed her away by not respecting her need for space.

At this point you are probably in too much emotional chaos to be sensitive to her needs. But you have to be respectful of her if you really love her.

Sounds like she is all mixed up. I think it must be her roommates or friends filling her head. I think the best thing is try to talk to her alone or distance yourself from her. You get to pick which one you like to do. Otherwise if she is all mixed up you should try dating someone else and see if she calls you back later if you still even want her back.

Dude, the best thing you can do is stay out of her life. Avoid her even. She can easily make her friends think your a stalker by your actions. You don't know what she says behind your back. I know it will be hard, but you are a MAN and men should be able to get over this. She sounds like a total bitch anyways. I know you feel hurt but that's life man. She isn't worth it. Leave her alone, get the "I want her back" out of your mind. The more you push to get together with her, the more she would push you away!