I have cut off my ex-boyfriend because he continues to see me for sex and then tells me he is not sure about what he wants with his life. Blah blah blah.
I changed my phone number, deleted him from Instant messaging, and I am moving. He still knows where I work and he still knows mutual friends and I have not changed my e-mail or myspace account. He knows that I love him and that I want to be with him. However allowing him to keep coming in and out of my life is like your dog dieing and your mom saying you can keep it!
I was wondering from the guys. Or girls. If he loves me do you think he will try to contact me even though it's going to be a little hard?
If he really loves you he WILL try and contact you, but he will want to talk about your future together, not just have sex. If he DOESN'T really love you, all he'll want to talk about is sex. His pattern suggests the latter.
Huh? Are you saying in the case he gets to love you? Obviously, if he were to still continue to contact you, is not because he loves you, but because he wants sex. Given your age range, I'm assuming the guy is his 30's? And he still doesn't know what he wants? I find that hard to believe!
Well you have commented on my issues with this same guy I am the woman with the crazy ex-husband he says he can't help to think my ex is around the corner trying to attack him. He is 28 years old and I am 30. I wish I could have just walked away :( - 8 months ago
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Ahhh yea! Not as simple of a story. All I can say that whenever the 'not sure what to do with life' excuse comes up, is because a guy is not ready to settle down with that specific woman. He just wants the physical part. - 8 months ago
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I know :(. I need to move on and I am going to try to do that starting today. I am just gonna leave him alone, and break all contact. Hopefully I will fall in love again some day. Thanks! - 8 months ago
He is going to try and contact you any way cause he is playing with your head and emotions keeping you spinning so he can use you as a fall back if things don't go his way. I say don't give he a chance cause you have it right stay away form him I know it will be hard and it is very easy to fall back into old habits you have to be strong you will get through this I know it.
I think you really want him to try hard to contact you but you will end up just being disappointed. You are trying to play hard to get but men don't normally respond to this, only women do. You should just forget him since he obviously doesn't know what he's missing.
I think he doesn't love you at all. A guy that keeps being persistent has only one thing in mind. SEX, and when SEX is involved some guys just try so hard that it doesn't matter what lengths they have overcome to get it. Like an obstacle.
I wouldn't think about this jerk any longer. You deserve better.
I'm going through the same thing with my ex and we've had so many arguments with it all. But I think the best thing is to definitely cut off all ties to him and if he tries to talk to you and you don't understand why he's doing that then he's not respecting the space you need to move on. My ex has tried to contact me but I know he doesn't love me or at least he would never tell me(sorry if that's too brutal) but trust me its definitely best if you don't speak to him because letting him come and go is like opening a wound all over again. Stand your ground and don't let him walk all over you.
The longer you have no contact with him the more he will have tie to think and miss you. I would not contact him. If he wants to, he will find a way to contact you. Keep your head up.
Well just tell him that you guys will be cool if he stops coming for sex. Maybe you guys can start over and tell to stop coming on for sex and to wait till You R ready not when he feels he needs it. He also might just want that to start a family and a life with you.
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