My boyfriend of a little over 2 years broke up with me about 3 months ago. He said that he was sick of the fighting and just needed to be alone. I still love him very much. He said that we could still talk and that he wouldn't shut me out of his life, but that is exactly what he did. I can't remember the last time I talked to him.
Also sometimes when he gets really drunk he will text me wanting to meet up for sex. He says things like "be happy its you and no one else". The next day when I ask him about it he says he doesn't remember saying those things.
I don't understand why he broke up with me in the first place, sure we had our arguments, but what couple doesn't? I love his family and my family adores him. I know he's been doing a lot of drinking since we broke up. I understand he wants time to party and have fun with his friends, but why does he have to hurt me in the process? I have so many questions so anything will be helpful!
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
I'm having the same problem :( I don't understand guys...he told me that he was moving away to live with his friends and wanted to be single. He said he had this plan before he met me, but then he met me and fell for me. Now it seems like he's confused...but he said he lost interest in me after 3 months and now just wants to be friends. It hurts, but maybe after he realizes (like the men in your lives) that there are girls out there not as great as you and I then maybe they will realize what they are missing....but maybe I'm just hoping this...
Im going through the exact same thing. My ex broke it off with me because we were fighting a lot at the end of our relationship, but he still wants to be friends with me but of course its too hard for me. Other then that he doesn't want a relationship and enjoys being alone playing wow all day. But I regret so much not walking away and letting him still have me for sex. If I were you id forget him and I'm sure you don't want to hear that, but its definitely best for you. He needs to get his shit together and grow up.
Unfortunately it sounds like we both have immature ex's. Take the time you spend thinking about him and turn it around on u, think about urself for once and be happy.
He hasn't grown up. He is afraid of the commitment of a relationship but he loves that you are there for sex. I would stop having sex with him. Give him his space. He needs to grow up and stop drinking. Hopefully you will still be there when he stops and grows up. He is taking the chance of losing you.
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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