So me and girlfriend broke up about a two weeks ago and we got into this argument about her roommates and I said how she didn't care about me because she was making up all this drama that acted like she was trying to push me away. And she told me not to talk to her anymore when I said she didn't care about me. Well she was getting on Instant messenger that only me and her used to talk on (meaning we are the only ones on each others buddy list). She would see that I would get on and then she would get on as soon as I would but not say anything and neither did I. And it doesn't automatically sign on. She would have to do it. This went on for like 3 days. Well today she instant message me and acted like nothing happen and we just talked casually about everyday things. What does this mean? She also hasn't talk to me ever since she did that one day. Was she just checking to see if I would talk to her and now that I did she is satisfied and doesn't want to talk to me any more? Plus she has a horse show coming up and she doesn't get to show for her team very much. Matter of fact this will be her second time total and this is her last year. Should I got to the show and support her or not even go? Plus I was wondering should I get her a a rose or a card for vday even though we broke up or does that look stalkish or do you think she would be flattered by it? I just want to know if there is anything I can do to get her to realize what a good thing we had? Plus she keeps updating her facebook page saying how she had awesome weekends and stuff and didn't really care about doing that when she was with me. Is she trying to get to me? I just don't know.
I would give this chick a bit of space before jumping back into anything with her. When you told her that she didn't care about you, you probably hit something in her - Either she really doesn't care about you and your comment hurt her because it's not true, or else you spoke the truth and her true heart was exposed. If you take some time before getting back into anything with her, you will be able to find out what her true motives are - whether she truly does love and care about you or whether you were just someone to be with. If she continues to pursue you when you are taking time out, you need to have a chat with her and ask her point blank whether she truly wants to be with you or not.
I think I said this once before, but you need to let her have her space. No, she is not trying to hurt you or make you jealous she is just having fun and letting her friends know about it. You do look a tad stalkish. Don't go to her show, don't give her anything for v day, she will realize what she had when you are not around anymore. She wants her space and you need to respect that and give it to her. Go out and have some fun and enjoy life. If she wants to come back she will. But, until you stop you will push her farther away with each attempt.
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