My boyfriend of three years is going to a military school seven hours away from me. We only get to see each other about once a month. But for the most part things have been going really well. We have our arguments but who doesn't? I was supposed to go see him this weekend and we were going to spend the entire weekend together. Out of nowhere last week he starts to seem really distant and didn't call or talk to me much. Then he emailed me one night and said he didn't have the same feelings for me anymore and thought we should break up. He won't talk to me now. What the heck happened and how do I get him back?
Hes hiding something and is too coward to tell you what it is that made him break up with you. Seriously you wouldn't want him back anyways because he obviously doesn't care or respect you enough to tell you the truth or to even talk to you in person. Instead he hides behind the computer and writes you an email. You didn't do anything wrong. Its him so just pick your head up and go find someone else that deserves you.
He has always done stuff like that though. He can't really like express anything like that to me. Being in the military he has always been taught to show no emotion. So the email thing wasnt really out of the ordinary. - 9 months ago
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Ok then unless you like the terminator type, then id suggest that you move on. I understand that being in the military made it difficult for him to express himself emotionally but at least have the respect to tell you why and what made him want to leave - 9 months ago
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P. S you guys have been together for 3 years! Not 3 months. He owes you more than that half ass reason to break up. - 9 months ago
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He said it was because he didn't feel the same way about me. and didn't have the same feelings for me as I did for him... - 9 months ago
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Now ask him why he lost feelings for you. - 9 months ago
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I tried to. He doesn't want to talk to me about it. He really doesn't talk to me at all. - 9 months ago
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That's why I called him a coward. This isn't something that he got from being in the army. The army doesn't teach their recruits to dodge their problems but instead deal with them like grown ups. You need a man. He has proven to me that he's just a boy. - 9 months ago
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Do you think he really doesn't feel the same way about me. I mean I know he's not cheating on me or anything and its not another girl that he likes. So what could it be. Like I said were were completely fine before this. - 9 months ago
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Well what else can it be? He broke up with you and the only reason he gave was because he didn't feel the same about you and you don't even know why he suddenly lost feelings. Worst of all he isn't even talking to you anymore. - 9 months ago
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And it's not like you pissed him off or anything like that so why is he dodging you? doesn't make sense. - 9 months ago
This means bad news for you. He lost interest in you because of the long distance. Let him go and see if you are meant for each when you see each other again. Your boyfriend just probably wants to move on with his life and that's what you should be doing too. Its hard but its true.
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