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Why do I feel like I should get my ex something for V-Day?

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what-to-do (Age:30 to 35)     When: 7 months ago
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Me and my ex have been broke up now for over a month. ( She broke it Off) Before xmas time. I spent xmas with her because she wanted me there. Well anyway she dose not act the same towards me now. If I call her she is vary hateful. If she call me she is sweet as pie usually because she want me to do something for her! Well I asked her yesterday to do something on Thursday for V-Day and she said no! Her aunt told me the other day that she was thinking about giving us another chance a few weeks ago! I guess she changed her mind because she never said anything to me about it. I do love her and want her back and I do want to show her that day that I do love her. If I don't do anything for her like send her flowers to work then she might not think I care and it might piss her off but at the same time she said no about doing something that day. I just don't want to do the wrong thing. What do all of you think I should do. I just feel like either way it could back fire on me! To do something or not do something!

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Hey buddy,
You really need to be able to accept what has happened and let her go. If she is being cold to you whenever you call her and doesn't want to spend time with you, then this should be a fairly obvious indication of how she feels about you.

You have to ask yourself the question as to why you want to get her something. Like what is the motive. By giving her a present do you think that she is going to turn back around and start liking you again?

I think that you need to giver her space and you need some time alone to reflect on that passing relationship

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Lesae (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
I would not send her jack. You are broken up and she is mean to you? Why waste the money and effort on a girl who treats you like that? Send the flowers to your Mom instead. She will appreciate them more.
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