I recently got in to an argument with my girlfriend. She told me never to bother calling again if I walked out. I stayed and continued to talk to her. She then got angry and walk out of the room. I was pissed, so I followed her and told her that I came to talk. I then walked out and said don't call me.
I realize that I was wrong. I called her once then following day and left a message saying that I was sorry. She didn't return my call. The next morning I still had heard nothing. The roads were icy so I just sent her a text message saying "drive carefully today" She has not yet gotten back to me. We had plans for V-day but those were canceled. I still plan on sending her a card. I figure that will be the last time I will try to contact her.
We have been dating for only 4-5 months. How long should I wait?
I give you props for trying to save this relationship but it really seems done. I'm really sorry to say that. But if she loved you enough she would forgive you.
I don't think you've heard the last of her. I don't agree with how she's handling the situation, there's other ways (i. E. Talking it out) to make her point. There's never really a rule to when you should move on. You know when you're ready to put yourself back in the market Just remember not to start dating someone out of spite.
Wait no more! You tried everything and were the bigger person. She wants a game. You are to nice for that my Dear. Tell her see ya, and go find a girl who will appreciate you and that you care if she drive safely. See, it's little things like that. One text that should have had her saying lets work it out. Very dumb girl. Sorry. But, dumb girls don't know a good guy! Move on!
Call her when you know she is free and she can answer, When my ex and I had fights and he left me messages, I never replied until he actually called when I could answer the phone. I did that because I wanned him to know I'm truly hurt. Maybe she is doing the same.
I called her once when she was at class. (didn't leave a message) then I called her after class, she was on the phone at the time with someone else so I left a message. she didn't call back - 9 months ago
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Don't you know when she is free and actually can answer the phone? Like I said, She is just trying to make you understand that she is deeply hurt. - 9 months ago
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The thing is if she needs space I need to give it to her. I need to give her time. If I keep calling it will make me look desperate and it will probably annoy her. - 9 months ago
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I didn't mean that you keep calling over and over again, I meant this: Call when you are 100% sure she is free and can answer the phone. I guess she is just trying to make you miss her and regret your behavior more and understand how she is hurt. - 9 months ago
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