Guys, what is the chance of getting back together with an ex girlfriend after you decided to be just friends?

i have done that before. I went back to her after about 2 months. but during this time, we kept in touch but she always forced the issue. secondly, I loved her a lot and I only moved away so I could take care of my life for once. problem was. we "dated" for 2 years afterwards, but I never gave her a promise of marriage. so she found someone else and slept with him within a week. don't do that! =)

make sure you really want him. don't get back at him cos your ego is hurt. do it only if you are willing to stick by him and show him that you are there for him. and if you get tired of him, let him know. ok this might not be working out or work through the problems. don't lead anyone on.

You're qualifying this with the limitation "not over her yet", which makes it difficult to answer. If I wasn't over her, then the relationship wouldn't be over. But to answer within the perimeters you've placed, I would remain friends with the hopes that we would eventually be together as a couple again. Personally once I break up with a woman I don't go back. What would be the point?

In your situation the guy has told you he wants to "move on", meaning he doesn't see you being in his future as a girlfriend. He might not have found a replacement for you yet, but he's wanting to shop around for a better model.