I cheated on my ex not sex or anything just a kiss when I was drunk sort of at a beach party in the summer, I was sorta upset at the time because the whole summer he ignored me for a video game aside from times I went to his house. Regardless no matter how much I apologized cried and asked for a another chance he wouldn't, he dumped me over AIM and when we did talk he pretended like we were friends again he would always ask me who I liked. So I stopped talking to him to say the least tried giving him space. Although I love him so much still and a friend told him I do, his response : "are you sure? " really. She doesn't even talk to me. He also said the ONLY chance we have is for us to start talking again and become friends so he can trust me. But he doesn't even try to talk to me at school, EVERY time we look at each other in class and in hallways but never leads to like actually anything I'm so confused I wanna know how he feels, what do you think were both 16 by the way.
Well, I use this a lot but, sometimes the answer you get is not the one you want. I myself and a very jealous guy with right now a ton of problems on my hands. But getting a guy jealous and cheating are different things. Cheating is horrible. When you agreed to go out with this guy, right there you basically swore that you will be his until you want otherwise (a break-up) I dislike it even more when your girl gets drunk at a party we aren't at. Because then we worry about someone else coming and taking advantage over them. If I were that guy I would have moved on and forgotten about you. Sorry if that sounded a bit harsh. But stay open to other guys, but keep him in your mind if you ever want to go back to him.
Trust is a difficult thing to build and incredibly easy to destroy. Cheating is cheating. Getting drunk and kissing some other guy because your boyfriend was playing a video game is lame. However, if you were an adult I would say you don't have a shot. Fortunately, you are both young and learning about relationships and how they work. Ask yourself this, If he did to you what you did to him would you forgive him? If you are in a relationship NEVER break the boundaries of trust. Once you learn what buttons your partner has, NEVER push them.
You have to regain his trust and show that he did mean something to you and still does. You are at an age where life is confusing and you want to experiment with other people. I think in time you will be friends again and you can build on that. He just needs time to trust you again.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'm wearing a skirt and fitted t. We go roller blading and wash each others cars. take a long ride in the sun and turn up the stereo singing as loud as we can.get coffee to go and then take a walk along the waterfront to find a good spot to spread out a blanket. we stargaze and talk for awhile and if were up to it we'll go for a swim.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I love the unknown and am always up for a water fight. I also love to race and compete (I love the challenge and the wind in my hair) but am willing to unwind and talk about anything.
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