Will my ex fiance and I get back together?

all signs point to no

I feel sorry for you. Really, I'm not just saying that. You're saying you tried it once and he hurt you. You tried it again, and he hurt you again. If you're asking me if you should try it again, I'd say it's like hitting rewind and play. The movie doesn't change.

its sounds like a disaster to me. my opinion is that you will never be happy together. you've given it plenty of chances. its doesn't work.

He is using you and he doesn't care because if he did he wouldn't have cheated or kept breaking up with you for another girl. So hunny its time to move on. There is a real man out there for you and its definitely not him. Be strong.. stop letting him always win. You are setting your standards too low. Start dating and have fun... time is a terrible thing to waste!

you know what its like my bf,its like reading about him..i am about to let him go its for him..if he can't decide for himself ill decide for him..its his baggage nots urs heis the one to deal..id say get ou...

All I can say is why in the world would you want him back? This sounds just awful, extremely unstable and you need to move on. Yes, I know it is hard to leave a first love and it is also hard to consider dating and meeting someone new eventually, but staying in such a disfunctional relationship is just going to continue to give you heartbreak and years of instability. Oh, and fyi, you cannot be friends with an ex, at least not that quickly. You two have way too much hurt and anger between you to move on to a friendship so soon.

why deal with that .
if he left yu more than once and cheated on yu only god noes how many times than why deal with it ?
do yu think that's all yur worth because let me tell yu noone deserves all that bullsheit.
yu need to move on sending him that email was a mistake and yu shouldnt have done that ;
dont meet up with him .
forget h I'm and move on
yu need to for yur own good .

You have to break up with this guy. This guy is manipulating you and is only causing you heartache. He wants you when he wants you and has no problem getting rid of you when something better comes along. He is defintely not someone who can hold onto a long-term relationship. I am surprised he even agreed to marry you. It is a good thing you didn't get married because at some point you would be getting a divorce and it would be even harder to break it off because your lives would be so intertwined.

This guy is using you and to continue to allow him back in your life is making you weaker and lowering your self-esteem. He has you at the point where you think you need him. I mean, if this were happening to a friend, don't you think you would tell her to dump the guy? It is so easy to see how bad the situation is from the outside. This guy is a complete jerk. Be glad he is not coming back. And the fact that you are now trying to get him back is just what he wants. Again, he is manipulating you. He knows you will always try to come back to him. Stop trying. Give him back his stuff so that you can be done with him. Just DO NOT get back together. I am telling you-DO NOT. You are wasting your time and your youth on this man. Someday you will regret it. The sooner you let him go the sooner you can get over him and find someone who is worthy of your love. Why settle for someone who isn't? Is that what you really want for the rest of your life? And you will never find the right guy if you keep wasting your time with the wrong one, because unlike him, you are faithful and are not looking around while in a relationship.

I know it hurts now but it does get better in time and know that you deserve more than he can give. And you will learn from each relationship and know better next time what you want in a man. It will make you grow.

Get him his stuff back but don't talk to him or see him. Cut it off completely so you can heal. It will take time but you will get over him. Just stay really busy and do things with friends to take your mind off of him. This was a horrible situation and I promise you will be happier once you have moved on. Trust me, it is better to be alone and be happy than be in a relationship that causes you emotional turmoil. If he doesn't make your life better, what is the point of having him around? You need someone who will make you happy all the time, not just when they feel like it.

Hi. I read your story. Actually gal, maybe it would hurt you, but I'd say that you feel more for him than the other way around. Why do you think he cheated on you and played heartless and cruel to you? I mean, more than just once.
I got this feeling, that he just wants you around, to have some kind of "secure and stable relationship" with a woman who loves and cares about him deeply. Have you ever talked about it with him?
If I were you, I will leave him, hold myself together, be a strong woman and be aware that I can survive without this guy.
If he came back this time, just like before, and you get married. Things are still not good for you. Can be worse, considering children and common property. Can you stand your husband, your children's father in and out of your life like this? Or always being prepared to be told that " I never loved you" or "well, I slept with her, so what?".
Shrug.. ok, as you want him back, just do not contact him for a while. Act cool and happy, hey, just do something like buying yourself nice clothes and put up a gorgeous make-up, hanging out with another guy over a coffee. And he will regret later.
The trick is, guys don't really cherish things that they can easily get or they know "it would just always be there for them".
Good luck. but I wish you would reconsider your relationship. Stop allowing him to hurt you...