My friend Kay just got dumped by her boyfriend and he dumped her in front of a group of his friends. I think it would suck to get dumped in front of others. My little brother got dumped by girl by text message. What's the worst that has happened to you?
1) it was my birthday 2) it was through a text message 3) it was a rude way of saying it. It said (Its over, I don't wanna talk to you anymore, it brings back memories) 4) I was at a party and my friend read the text out loud
It was the meanest thing anyone has ever done to me. But now that girl is completely ignored and hated for it, and she's like goth now.
I didn't get a good reason for my breakup. he broke up with me because I am "eventually" going to leave for school. And I'm not leaving for another year. But he decided on his own without telling me that he was going to loose feelings for me. We were totally normal, no fights, nothing, and one night he says "lets break up" and the reason is because I'm going to leave. In a year? That's just dumb. Then he says he wants to be friends and when I get over it, I'm like ok, let's do that. Then he says it's "weird" for him because it's too soon and continues to ignore me. I thought he was the one who lost feelings? sheesh. Lol.
Oh honey that's nothing, the worst break up that happened to me wasn't even a break up. I found out from my ex's best friend that he had three other girls while being with me. I didn't even know. And we didn't even break up, he didn't notify me, nothing, no call, no message. NADA! He didn't return my calls or my messages. So one day I saw him in outside of school, with his new girlfriend. He's just standing there, pretending like nothing happened between us. And he HAS the NERVE to say hi. Without explaining why he didn't call or supposedly on why we "broke up". I was devastated at first because I gave him my heart. And he said he wouldn't hurt me. But he did. And now because of him I can't trust guys anymore or fall for them. All thanks to my ex- Hence "asshole"
Well, I wasn't technically broken up with, I broke up with him but a few days after that he decided it was cool to date a friend who I had known longer than him. I had always thought they hated each other but little did I know, they were talking to each other. It was so close to our 2 year anniversary, too.
After I had broken up with him, we became FWB and after we had just gotten done having sex and he was leaving, he told me that he was going to go out with her. Thing is, her and I had 4 classes in school together so going to classes was soo hard cos we had sat next to each other and talked all the time.
We had all the same friends, too. Believe me, I kicked him out my house. It felt so terrible. I would NEVER want anyone to go through that and feel what I felt. Throughout all of this, I lost most of my friends and a boyfriend. Woo hoo, breakups! -_
Back in high school, I'd been dating this guy for a year and two months. He was a morning person (and I am not, under any circumstances). He sent me an email around 6am, 6:30 or so. I went to school without checking my email. He was actually a lot more calm than he had been, and I thought we might finally be able to work through some of our issues. Then I got home and checked my email before going to work.
I still owe my best friend and her (now ex-)boyfriend - they left a date immediately and came to give hugs. And the best friend and another good friend brought be chocolate and a turkey (it was near Thanksgiving) that gobbles when you squeeze it. I don't know what would have happened if they hadn't been around, but it wouldn't have been pretty.
You friend Kay's ex sucks and is immature. I think the worse way that I ever got dumped was over email. Just emailed me and said. I wanna break up is that OK with you? I never responded. I think it bothered him though, he is still trying to be my friend. He sucks.
My worst "breakup" involved me driving 300 miles to see him for the weekend, going to his family's house, having them tell me he has a 2nd job (I thought he was working late at his main job) at a pool hall, going to "surprise" him there and finding my boyfriend of 2 years hanging out with the girl he dated before me. He tried to hide, but it was a small place, heh. Being the bigger person I approached her and said "I don't know what he's telling you, but apparently he's talking to both of us. " She just mouthed off something ignorant, but I knew he was mostly to blame, not her. Long story short, I knew something wasn't right with us, confirmed it and he wouldn't man up to what had been going on. They moved in together that weekend. I just wish he would have called me a bitch and broken up with me instead of me wasting my gas money and energy. Guess I just had to see for myself what was going on! He gave me the "I love you, but don't know what I want" excuse.
And yes my dumb butt got back together with him a few months later. Live and learn.
My worst "break-up" was when I was 16 and my then boyfriend called me and wanted me to come over to his house when I got there he had his new girlfriend (who was then my best friend) with him and proceeded to tell me that I wasn't spending enough time with him so we were done. I mean come on couldn't he have done it without her there or took the easy way out and just called me. It was the worst WAY anyone ever ended things with me but I wasn't really bothered because we didn't have anything in common. That is actually the only time anyone ever "dumped" me but it is definitely something I will always remember.
Well I got dumped at my families reunion. I had invited him to it and he went when he was there he looked and acted strange when all of the sudden he told me our relationship is over in front of my whole family. That was so embarrassing to me and my family still remind me still this day. So yeah I think that was a really bad way to dump someone. So no hard feelings
So I just found out that my ex boyfriend is dating my brother's ex girlfriend. We all used to hang out in a group and the only reason they know each...
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