So let me begin the story. I know this girl for like 3mths and got tgt with her for 6mths. She broke up with me after that. Telling me that we are not suitable for each other.. she say we were different. And she told me that she likes someone else. She feel bad about it. But she doesn't want to be with me and likes someone else at the same time. Hence she decided to broke up with me.
At first I was very angry that she actually liked someone else. But after seeing her cry while we sat down and talk about it. I accepted the truth. But I still can't move on. We have broke up for like 1 and a half months already. We went out twice during this period. And she still tears when we talk about our stuff.. the last time I met her.. We kiss and hugged each other.. As I told that this would be our one last. she allows me to kiss her lips. but not french. she wants me to be her friends forever. but I don't want to just be her friends. I want to be with her.
Its been 2days since the last day I met her. and we didn't msg each other. I wonder if she's still interested in me? Do I still have a chance? what should I do?
Update: Thank you for all the replies! (= I shall move on.
5 months ago
This girl sounds like the typical attention whore. She wants everyone to give her attention and pine over her. Feel sorry for her because it is so hard on her to like more than one guy at a time. Don't fall for it. If you are ment to be with her, let her work for it. She hurt you and now you are the on to worry and overanalyze it? No...if she is pure then it will all work out. But be aloof...give her less attention.
When it comes to girls, its all about waiting. Guys usually know what they want and it’s the girl who has to take time to “figure things out”. If you really think that she is worth it, you are gonna have to wait. Being a girl, I would say that she obviously still wants you in her life and cares about you, but she is trying to have her cake and eat it too. She wants you and the other guy and probably knows that you will be willing to wait around for her. Show her that you care about her, but don't miss up an opportunity to get with another girl too. There is still hope, but don't put all your eggs in one basket!
I would strongly suggest you to move on and find someone to date although it might be hard for you now. When women in general say, "We are different" means, she doesn't like him as a guy to have an intimate time with. There was no "what she wanted" in the relationship." Those kinds of women use the word, "Be friends" but it means, just needs someone who likes her when she feels lonely or unstable. Whenever that time happens in her life, she comes back to you to just talk and make sure if you still like her so it makes her feel safe like a couch. But there is no future that she will be in love with you again. Even if that happens, I assume it will take a long time, after she experienced many guys and she realized there was no Mr. Right. She was seeing someone else while seeing you. You deserve better woman than her----you will know. When woman uses a word, "friend", it really means it. Nothing more or less. So, to answer to your questions, no, she is not interested in you as a guy but friend. No, you don't have a chance for a while. What you should do I can suggest is not to show her that you are still in love with her, just go dates with other women, if she contacts you, behave you are like really her friend---no intimacy, you might even be able to ask her for her advice about your new girlfriend. In that case, she might be back.
Most people in the world fear loneliness and I feel that she just wants to make sure if the person she ends up with doesn't work out,then she still has you who is waiting.
U should go out and date other people,so that she is doesn't feel too relaxed.Give her a challage,so that she knows that you can go at anytime,because right now she sees you as the guy who she can get with right away.U are currently her spare.
The whole still wanna be friends is not bad,but the way she put things seems like she just wants to make sure you keep having feels for her.
Chasing a girl who dumped you is always a mistake. It gives her the idea that even if she wants to come back, she can take her time since you don't have any other options. (If you had other options, you wouldn't chase her.)
You won't even KNOW if you have a chance until you've begun to move on, and she's faced the real possibility of losing you. If you have a chance, she'll find you, and you can talk. If you have no chance, you've moved on, so it doesn't matter.
The reason why she decided to be with you in the first place is because she had interest in you. Things may have changed in your time together and she doesn't see you anymore as a boyfriend because of this new guy that peaked interest in her. Its worth a shot at trying to get her back if things are still fresh and you talk. If she did care for you and had feelings for you your best bet would probably let her take some time for herself to realize what she had was golden. Its better not only for you but also for her to show her that you're not going to be in pain, or seem really needy. Just keep it platonic for now and be friends. Better yourself and she will see you as being better likewise most likely. Its all about push and pull...if you pull her to be with you too hard she's just going to push back...pull her in a little bit and YOU push her back. Next time you meet just act casual like its the best for both of you...you pushed...she will try to pull to be friends. Keep up the push pull push pull and it might drive her back to you. She most likely will not forget you anytime soon if you were good to her. You just need to make yourself look good to her again in ways
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