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But he said he loved me ? he cried ? he cut himself because of me .

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hrtbrkn (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I don't understand we were together for so long .
i was going to (but I didn't) lose my virginity to him the day he
had to move away we both were virgins.
Then he brakes up with me out of nowhere.
and decides to throw so much stuff in my face and he got with another girl the same day he broke up with me. well actually he didn't even break up with me yet! and he was already with her!
she was named alison and constantly he'd text me to put me down saying so much sheit to me and saying alison is better she loves me more she's doin things to me that you would nevr be able to she's beautiful she has more than you would ever have ;
when he told me this I played "tough" but inside I was so hurt I cried so hard that night. I hated my life.
and before we broke up; once before and he'd constantly call text me and want me back; he even cried for me at one point he called and cried on that phone
we must have talked for at least 3hrs .
but then he does this? he said he loved me ; I kept him away from so much bad things ; and I truly loved him but I don't understand why ?


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TexPlayboy
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TexPlayboy      When: 5 months ago
He sounds controlling, manipulative and immature. Time might fix the immaturity, but the other two are likely to be lifetime traits. Thank GOD (or whoever you consider Supreme) that you dodged a lifetime of this kind of treatment. Ask not why, but just how do you avoid the next man who is like the last one.

Maybe it is time to fish in a new pond.

Good Luck,
James
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gotc147 You pretty much hit the nail on the head here.

Time to find a guy worth your time. - 5 months ago
Answerer :-) thank you, I am blushing. ---<----@ - 5 months ago

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AngryNes
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AngryNes      When: 5 months ago
I agree with everyone else on here. It's just a bad case of immaturity. The reason he texted you back and did this and did that was because he finally realized what he had lost. You're being the bigger person by moving on. You're still young. You'll find a guy one day so awesome that you'll barely remember this other guy's name. Good luck!
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
Hey just think of it this way.



YOU DODGED A BULLET. guys can be assholes is the answer to ur question btw... at least you got to see his "true nature" not all guys are like that, but this one was. So just thank God or whatever supreme being you believe in or fate or just life that you dodged this bullet, because you couldve been a goner for years with this person. wasted years. so think about it. you got to see his true self and now you know that it was a mistake to be with him, even if it wasnt ur fault, you got to see the truth. Now you can move on
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BaronScrewtape
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BaronScrewtape      When: 5 months ago
He sounds very emotionally unstable. Destructively so. I would not recommend remaining involved with him unless you are an emotional masochist. Run far and fast from him.
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
f*** him. he doesn't deserve you.
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swtbttrfly
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swtbttrfly      When: 5 months ago
I heartily agree with every answer here. The reason he did all of this? Don't waste thought on it, honey. All it boils down to is that he is a douchebag and you are ultimately way way way better off without him. Nobody is worth that sh*t, even if you did love him. Save your love for someone that actually deserves it!
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You just saw his true colors. This is what he's really like.
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993099142      When: 5 months ago
HE was pretending to be something he was was not around you to keep you in your life... now you see him for who he is and not who he pretends to be.
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june1216
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june1216      When: 5 months ago
he wanted to make you jealous but that was a reallllllyy bad way. He's not a good guy. if he was a good guy he won't want to see you hurt. and to tell you the truth I don't quite understand either. I suggest finding someone else. I'm really sorry he said those things to you. NO guy is worth that! you deserve wayyy better!
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