I dated this boy for 3 months I instantly fell in love. Things were great and I even met his family. He treated me right and everything. But he got kicked out of school and then broke up with me. That tore me apart. It's been 2 months now and I still cry every single night of my life and now my grades have been going down. I am nothing without him. My whole life is a mess without him, my soul has died. I want to move on but I can't help but love him cause you can't help who you love and you can't control how you feel. I could find someone else, no problem but the thing is, I don't want anybody else. Do you think I will ever move on or will I stay heartbroken for the rest of my life? I even thought about killing myself. I know that's crazy but my life is a living hell and the only one that can get me to stop crying is the one that makes me cry and this pain hurts soooo bad. Somebody please help me.
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crazngirl
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I've felt the same way trying to kill myself for a dude that I'm still with but I understand that if you love someone you can't control yourself but that'll be a big step in your life. One day you'll move on. It takes a lot of time, it's like losing someone by death and it's okay to think about him though. If you love someone you should learn to let them go and if they come back then it was just meant to be, something I heard before.
Girlie first I have to say is that you don't let no boy make you want to think about killing yourself cause it's not even worth all that, you are going to be hurt at first, but soon you will get over him your love won't go away but you'll get over him. Life is too short, take chances and find someone new. There are some people that you are supposed to be with for a lifetime and there are some that you are supposed to be with for a season, maybe he is that season, but try and date other dudes maybe you will find your lifetime.
crazyoverhim
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Talk to him about it. If it's gonna work out it will but I mean you got to think about the fact that it's not like you see him everyday and he's always flirting with you and making you think you got a chance right? He broke up with you and left it at that. So I'd say the best thing to do is talk to him if that don't work try to move on.
MsVirginChica
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Ummm all I can say is just concentrate on your life now rather than what your life now things will work eventually just give it time and try not to worry about it. If you want him that bad go get him. Things you love are worth fighting for don't give up.
iluvgiraffes
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Honey you are strong. I know it. You might not think you are but you can make it through I promise babe. It takes a lot of time but just try to do other things like hang out with family or friends and just try to get your mind off of him. He is not worth all this pain and tears. I know to you he may seem so perfect but I guarantee you that there is someone out there that is more perfect and he will be one that is gonna treat you right babe. Just stay strong honey and believe in yourself and trust me babe you can make it through this you will get over him and you will find yourself a boy that will be with you for the rest of your life I promise.
You'll get over him most definitely. Just don't talk to him or look at him. I was in love like that too, and I cried everynight and everything that I had going for me dropped. But trust me you are young and things like heartbreaks happen to teach you lessons and make you stronger. It will take time no doubt but you'll move on.
Yes you will most definitely get over him honey and besides you are young, and when you are about 25 or so you'll look back on your youth and thank god that you did't dwell on this guy, instead you had an absoulutly exciting and vivacious time being young! Don't think about him with saddness, just remember the fun you had and now think about all the fun flirting you could be doing instead, specially once your 21!
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