My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years I love him with all of my heart and basically have revolved my life around him...but I discovered he talked to 2 girls behind my back about hooking up...so now I have been obsessing with snooping through his phone and emails..i know I shouldn't but I just don't want to stand around to get hurt again...so the other day we got into a huge argument about it and he tried to break up with me saying he couldn't handle my insecure ways...i feel awful now for being how I was but I know I can't change...should I let him go because he is right I'm too insecure to be with? or should I just continue to try to change myself to stay with the one I love more than anything..i don't want to lose him...
If he was willing to meet other women, it's obvious he was planning on leaving, or rather getting bored with the relationship. Can you really see yourself dating or continuing to date someone like that? I'm sorry, but he no longer deserves you, REGARDLESS of how good he was in the past. He laid it all on the line by looking for other "prospects". And the worse part is that he's forcing you to believe it's YOU and not the other way around. Your snooping started BECAUSE of him. Please leave him, you do not need to change for this guy, as he is undeserving.
Its very hard to leave someone when you feel so much love I feel blindsided by what's going on and I just want to fix me and him..like I would do anything - 5 months ago
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You can't fix someone, if they are willing to make the decisions or steps to move on. Honey, he was doing this behind your back. Do not let him segue back to you, just because of his good nature in the past. Do you think your relationship deserves that? Do you think you do? The hardest part of a broken relationship is learning when to start anew. It's far easier to go back to what's familiar and broken, than to start something else.
I agree with the first guy who commented. I undertand how hard it is to let someone you love that much go, but if he truly loved you he would never be trying to "hook up" with other girls. If the relationship even had a chance of working you would HAVE to completely forgive him and it sounds like you haven't if you're checking his phone and emails. Also, I think he would be doing everything in his power to reassure you that it won't happen again if he really loved you, but you have 2 forgive him - 5 months ago
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