How do you get a guy to fall out of love with you?

You can help him move on by making yourself scarce. Tell him ahead of time that you won't be contacting him, or answering calls or texts or emails for a good long time. Like until Christmas. And that you're doing this because it's over, and you want him to move on and have a great life. This might be hard for you; after all, it's super flattering when a good guy is SO into you. But if you really want to help him, you need to cut him loose. And if you're forced to see each other at school or something, have as little contact as possible with him. To him, everyday friendly = she might love me again.

He has to do his part. He has to get busy with school or work or sports or friends or a project of some kind. You can't make him fill his time; he has to do it. But the combination of you being out of the picture and a bunch of new stuff filling that mental space should do the trick, after some time has passed.

Stay strong. This is for HIS good in the long term, as much as he won't like it initially.

If you find the solution let me know(lol) because I have been trying to let go of my guy for a few years and he doesn't move on he just keeps on persisting and I don't know what to do either I have left him and dated other people, I have told him we aren't ment to be together, I have told him that I don't love him, that I care for someone else, and yet he maintains his position. I even though tht leaving him and start dating other people the next day after leaving hm would hurt his ego and he would just move on, but nope that didn't work either. I know how hurtful it can be to see someone really care for you back and you not being able to care the same but unfortunatly we don't have the key to our own heart.

Tell him that he HAS to move on for his own good and you disappear from his sight.

There's really no way to do this because its all about him and he might not even believe your being real if you start trying to push him away. This is just a matter of you having to distance yourself from each other and maybe then you guys feelings will dim a little but if they don't then maybe that's telling you that you are truly meant for each other

I guess it depends on how long you were together and how often you spend time with him...
Generally I think men fall out of love quicker because I think most men confuse lust with love

I think guys personally have a harder time falling out of love if it wasn't their idea to breakup. I think guys have a harder time connecting to someone emotionally so when they do and they don't want it to end, they take longer to work through it and to be ready for a new relationship.

You cannot help him move on other than to limit contact with him and don't make the mistake of thinking you can be friends. He won't be able to go through the steps of grieving the loss of your relationship (yes, it is like grieving a death) if he keeps having contact and a sense that you are still together or that there is hope. In the end, as painful as breakups are we do get through them and we do move on but that is his journey to take, not something you can fix for him, though I understand your desire to help him.

honestly. emotional and physical distance. just tell him you're busy, don't talk to him at all for a while and see if anything changes. he'll get the hint soon enough and move on