My and Ex and I broke up 8 months ago we dated for about 6 months. I was in Love with him he was my first Love, Although I never said it to him, I didn't want it to be like I'm the only one who says it! And look silly. But that's how I feel. Towards the end I felt like I was putting more into the relationship than he was,It's supposed to be 50/50 NOT 30/70! SO I gave him an ultimatum either he can think about everything we've talked about I told him how I felt about our relationship or we could end it! BUT he didn't even NEED to think he told me that he didn't want to hurt my feelings.
Than we parted ways and I was absolutely heartbroken. And was san and lonely cryin for months!. He also told me that he didn't have TIME for a girlfriend at that time So a few months went by I was moving on,than ALL of a sudden he starts texting me and telling me about his life, and I really didn't care, but than we started talking even more. And he told me he brokeup with his girlfriend too. He didn't HAVE to tell me, but he did! Ss we started hanging out and talking every night again. BUT I want him to get back to gether with me even though he said that he wants to be single right now. I don not want to be FWB with him, I' want a real relationship! Should I wait for him to man up and make it offiical or do you think that I'm wishfully thinking he's going to eventually make us official or should I stop hanging with him one on one. We have never had sex yet either.
Based on what you've said here, I'm not sure he will ever get back with you the way you want him to. I would consider breaking up, and moving on. It sounds like he will eventually break your heart.
If he's gonna act like a little girl like this then I say move on. It sounds like you have more of an idea of what you want than he does [like usual because like you said about the 30/70 thing] It's a fact that history repeats itself and in this case, it sounds like that would happen again. It's not very smart to keep talking to him so much because you want it to lead somewhere but he doesn't. It sucks that you loved him after 6 months but after 8 months you've just got to realize why you two broke up in the first place and just walk away.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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