So I met this guy online (creepy right? ) and he actually turned out to be pretty awesome. We were both kind of skeptical about the online dating thing but we met anyway.
Anyway, we met up for lunch a few times at school and the weekend after we met he came to my place and made me dinner. We watched a movie, drank a little wine and ended up sleeping together. We cuddled pretty much all night and it was awesome. So we've had lunch a few more times and did the dinner/sex thing again (haha). We hung out yesterday and when we were saying good bye he kind of rubbed my arm a little and smiled.
Here's the deal. He doesn't really call me all that much or initiate hanging out. It really seems like we clicked and we'll see each other like 3 days in a row but then I won't hear from him for another 3.
Maybe this is how it's supposed to work. My ex and I just stopped seeing each other a few months ago and he's the only guy I had dated/had a relationship within the past 3 years. I'm not used to this.
Oh and last night I told him he should come to my breakdancing class to hang out after his yoga class was up. It's the university gym and the rooms for yoga and breakdancing are right across the way from each other. I actually saw him leaving yoga right when my breakdancing class started and he didn't even come in to say hi.
My roommate says to forget about it-that he's too sketchy. I know this sounds complicated but I'd appreciate some help!
He might just like it the way it is, without the commitment part and the flowers and candy. If this isn't to your liking, you need to tell him that you want more than that. That might make him want to leave, but if it does, then you'll know why, and you can cut your losses without it getting any worse.
Firstly, no such thing as "maybe this is how it's supposed to work. "
There are no established standards to how relationships should work so I think you are trying to compensate for his lack of interest by playing down the situation.
What is it that you seek from the relationship with him?
Putting our advise aside, including your room mate, what is your gut instinct on this?. And when I say gut instinct, I don't mean the diluted instinct after you've toiled over it for a few hours or days and made a few excuses for them and yourself.
Okay maybe he just sees you as a young women to hang out to have sex or if he has nothing else to do. Thats what it seems like. You did meet after all offline and kept on sleeping with each other during the times you hung out. I think your just another one of his girls. Ask him to hang out again, but do not sleep with him. if you do hangout, see how it goes and you will see what kind of relationship you have with him.
Well we've only had sex twice and the last time I hung out with him we had lunch together and just talked. - 7 months ago
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Maybe your relationship is just about sex, cause the last time you two hung out was just to eat and talk, not to have sex. Maybe that's why he stopped hanging out with you. Time will tell, and start judging this guy on his past actions, not just his words. - 7 months ago
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You didn't understand what I said, read my comment again. - 7 months ago
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"He doesn't really call me all that much or initiate hanging out. It really seems like we clicked and we'll see each other like 3 days in a row but then I won't hear from him for another 3."
He didn't stop hanging out with me it's just odd how he acts - 7 months ago
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What is he doing in those 3 other days? Are you the only girl he's seeing? - 7 months ago
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