here's the background; should I have the "what are we?" talk with him?
- we've been on 13 dates over 2 months
- we've met each others' families, he's had me hang out with all his best friends and his brother, he's been over my house a lot and I've been to his a bunch of times.
- we're at 2nd base in physical stuff
- he texts me every day, always asks how I am, is concerned about me when I don't feel well, etc. etc.
- I'm not seeing anyone else. he knows this. he's not seeing anyone else. I know that. we've both made that clear.
- he's shy-ish; I approached him before we started dating and he's always been respectful and taken it slow with me. bottom line: he's a good guy, I trust him.
if you need any other insight, please ask. thank you for the help. please tell me, especially guys! I'm so afraid this will push him away and I'll lose him.
I think you've convinced yourself, no? It's long past time to have a clear talk about the future. I don't see any reason to TRUST him, by the way, but of course it's hard for me to say.
Wow! 13 dates is a lot. I'm surprised you haven't asked him already.
Im a guy (23) and to be honest, I'm not really sure how the "asking out" thing works these days. Is it like back in high school when you have to say "will you be my girlfriend," or is it just a mutual understanding...just tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way, you will have cleared up something from both of your minds.
I'm not sure; I'm 19 and he's 21...so let me ask you (as someone who is close to his age...sorta..)::
what's the least non-threatening way to bring it up? I was just gonna be like, "so when I talk about you or introduce you to someone, can I stop saying that you're just 'my friend'? because I think you deserve more than that."
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