I don't feel as if I would have a hard time getting a girlfriend but the problem is that I live in a area whit a lot of rude, ugly and unhealthy girls and when I go out if town I feel like I am in heaven, without being in a long distance relationship, how can I find a decent girl?
I agree with the first part of ionlife's answer. Prejudging every girl in town isn't going to get you anywhere. The best way to meet girls that you'll be interested in is to do things that you like to do. Do you like a certain type of music? Go to more concerts and try chatting up some girls there. Like reading? Join a book club. Like the outdoors? There are clubs for that as well. But fundamentally, you've got to keep an open mind.
Buddy, you are suffering from the grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side-of-the-fence syndrome. :)
If you tell yourself that all the local girls are "rude, ugly and unhealthy" then I will guarantee you that /all/ of the local girls you meet will be rude, ugly and unhealthy.
Technically speaking you are displaying discontent, envy and jealousy for the local girls who can't seem to live up to your standard that you've created in /your/ mind.
The way I see it, you've got two options. One, move out of town and find your angel there or, two, approach local girls without pre-judging them and be more positive in your outlook towards them.
Your mind is very powerful and if you've convinced your mind that all local girls are fugly then even Alessandra Ambrosia will be unappealing to you when she moves in next door.
I do agree with this, but its not as if I am not looking and giving people a chance, I like a lot of the people, but they are not gf material, most like to act "ghetto" and I don't take a liking to that. But I do agree with what you had to say. - 5 months ago
Finding a girl is like shopping almost. I wouldn't say that you should go to bars in other towns or anything. A bar is the last place I'd look for a lasting relationship. Just go to a nearby city and hang out somewhere that interests you. If you meet a girl there, then problem solved!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Not a so fancy resturaunt, where we can talk deeply. After wards a nice time-taken walk on the beach.Wearing a skirt that is knee high and a shirt that low cut but not too low cut and when it becomes a little chilly my date would put his jacket around me.It begins to rain and out of no where my date kisses me,both our faces turn red,he drives me home and with a simple kiss goodnight, I go inside.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I am loving, a good listener, someone he can trust, someone he willknow will always be there for him.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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