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Should I be concerned?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I've been getting to know my best friend's best friend over the last couple of months. Last night, we finally had this heart-to-heart and I asked him how he felt about me because I was unsure whether we were friends or friends with potential, aside from saying I liked him. His response? "I feel the same as you...", and yet, I was the one having to ask all the important questions.

Should I be concerned he's not as interested in me as I am in him because he wasn't asking me the loaded questions?


Update: He initiated the question asking by the way..    4 months ago

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mtrldan      When: 4 months ago
Hes sounds like he's pressured, in a good way. He initiated and then got a response that he wanted to here but then didn't really think much about the questions and answers that would follow the initial question about how yall felt about each other.

But, in the end he does sound like he has a thing for you. And the response that you recieved from him is just him being happy and overwhelmed. I've been in plenty of situations where I hear what I want to hear and then get tongue twisted afterwards, because I didn't think things through all the way. Maybe its a guy thinkg, lol
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Virtuales
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Virtuales      When: 4 months ago
he's intrested in you
but doesn't wanna get rejected
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Tamikaze      When: 4 months ago
Let it go. If was truly interested in you as more than a friend, he would be trying to seal the deal and there would be no confusion on your part as to what is going on here. I can tell you this much, if you keep having to make the moves, ask all the important questions and basically drive the relationship, it will continue to be that way through out whatever future possible relationship you might have and you will grow tired of it. Wouldn't you rather have a guy who is head over heels for you and is putting in the energy to make sure you don't get away?
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loveLIFEgiveLOVE      When: 4 months ago
Um, I don't think I understand this question very well.

But, I'll say based off of that conversation, don't be concerned. Maybe he just didn't know what to say. Maybe the deep&intimate conversation gave him the cat-got-your-tongue syndrome. Or, maybe it's just hard for him to talk about his feelings.

Sometimes it's hard for people to talk face to face with someone about their feelings and emotions...I'll probably try a different means such as e-mail or IM. See if it works and good luck!
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Question Asker Well, basically I'm wondering if he truly likes me. He's shy and not that confident when it comes to dating whereas I'm outspoken and have no problem saying how I feel. He initiated asking personal questions bt tht was more because he had a complicated past, we took turns asking questions & that's when I bit the bullet & asked him how he felt about me. His answer was more than "I feel the same as you" but it wasn't necessary to say. He also asked me questions, not 1s about how I felt or anything - 4 months ago
Answerer Oh I see...yea, I'd say that he initiated the conversation in hopes to hear your opinions about him, but then sort of faded in the background to let you do all the talking because probably he doesn't want to REVEAL that much or is shy/nervous to reveal his emotions about you. - 4 months ago
 
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