1. he never forgets to say "i love you in every phone conversation we could chance.
2. even though he has been skipping sex lately but still talk about a little bit of our future together.
3. want to marry one day
4.plans for a vacation for two of us and one for the the whole family.
5.he provides my needs except for sex that's like a bummer..(I still get it anyways I pen him and tie) hasn't been a while this is only the past 2 weeks,we still have some kind of action but not like we used to..
if you guys say f*** that! leave him don't worry I'm setting up my mind already..just don't want to get mistaken and hurt myself in the process I want to be able to piece things up and throw it on my face like a "pickaboo" your man is a big jerk"..
I believe that most men would cheat if they thought they could get away with it. At least once in their life. It is not about being in love, or not loving someone else. If he does not cheat, it is more likely out of fear of loosing you, and that could be considered "love"?
But maybe there is another way to approach this. Tell him you want an open relationship. Or choose to be swingers. Get it all out in the open, and then see if he can be honest. Because trust is really the issue, not sex. Sex is a body function if it is with someone who has no emotional connection.
By letting him know you are considering joining his wild side (with or without him), he will see the other side of the issue.
You can take that risky route.. or take the safer router, where he'll probably just cheat again. - 4 months ago
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It sucks bad time..i wish I could just over with this soon.. - 4 months ago
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I believe that if a guy cheats once, he will cheat again. Relationships tend to go in one direction, and once they go down hill, it is a slippery slope. I believe that time will prove my point, but if you love him, give him another chance. But keep your eyes open and your heart protected. Boys will be boys. Good Luck - 4 months ago
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Exactly...i did and I got relief when he actually said yesterday,"give it more weeks" because I said I feel like giving up already..he didn't make no question as to why I asked because he knows why..so when he said that I just thanks very much for everything..emotionally it ended there..a very good signal for me.. - 4 months ago
James, I disagree with you. Most men cheat because they are inherently selfish. I would never nor have I ever cheated because I value loyalty in others and they should expect the same from me. We live a world of short attention spans, self gratification and planned obsolescence. Civility and tolerance are history. Those of us who choose dignity are going extinct. - 2 months ago
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Jbone.. I hope the world has more men like you, than like me. I was celibate for five years trying to "do it right". Sadly, it did not work out for me. So I bounced the other way, and you are correct on all points. But I think more people end up like me, rather than like you. Keep up the good example, win them one at a time. Good Luck. - 2 months ago
ALRIGHT HERE IS THE BREAK DOWN YOU DONE KNOW THE ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION IT ONE OR TWO THINGS ONE HE CHEATING OR BORED IN THE REALATIONSHIP SO YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHICH ONE IT IS IF HE CHEATING LET THE DOG STAY IN THE DOG HOUSE BECAUSE YOU SURE DONT WANT NO FLEAS TO GET ON YA AND IF HE BORED GET SOME CUTE OUTFITS SO SOMETHING THAT YOU NORMALLY WOULD NOT DO KEEP THE SPICE ALIVE YOU COULD GO SEE HIM AT WORK FOR A SNACKY SNACKY YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND ASK THE LORD TO GUIDE YOU DOWN THE RIGHT PATH
Of course there's a possibility that he still loves you even though he cheated. But what you have to ask yourself is, how much did he love you in the first place if he was willing to cheat?
I'm in the situation, It looks like he does love you. After he has cheated on, that probably exhausted him from him having sex as he used to, and has learned his lesson. (MAYBE) But sex shouldn't be your main complaint. You guys should be spending as much time as possible to mend what was hurt in your relationship. It really does take time.
Is he remorseful for cheating? Is he doing anything and everything in his power to make this up to you? Do you love him enough to try to work through this and rebuild the trust? Only you know the answers to these questions.
IMO, if you truly love someone then cheating doesn't EVER enter the equation. Why would you expose someone you love to possibly an STD, betrayal, lying and disrespect?
If he made an impulsive decision and is truly, truly remorseful then you might be able to salvage it. He is human and sometimes we do things we're not proud of. However, if he acts like its not a big deal, "it meant nothing to him" and he loves you only then he is untruthful. Should that be the case then you can do better.
There are men out there who are capable of being loyal, trustworthy and have eyes only for you.
Thanks very much girly..yes he is letting go of me,he knows and he's aware of what he did,he was remorseful so he said yesterday give it a couple weeks but you can do what you want..im ok now it ended yesterday.. - 4 months ago
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All I have to say is once a cheater always a cheater. Does it even matter if he loves you if he's a cheater?
It may take some years to come to a place of confidence for anyone to accept the person they love for the person that they are. I met my current wife and I was/am a player. Not a cheater, because I was always honest about who I am. She fell in love with me, and we have been together for 8 years, married for over six. Now she joins me in my wild side and we have never been happier. So she can love him if he is a cheater, but I agree, he isn't likely to stop. - 4 months ago
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Exactly..he picked that part of life..he is happier that way so I am not going to take that away from him.im just taking it away from me so yeh sadly it ended yesterday..emotionally yeh physically is coming.. - 4 months ago
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