So there is this boy that I meet a couple of months ago. We hung out once with his friend and my friend (kinda of a double date). After that date we haven't seen each other. He would text me asking me what I was doing but I was always busy. After a month or so he stopped texting me so I started texting, he would answer but I wouldn't ask him to hang out(i wouldn't ask a boy to hang out I to shy)..then a few months later I stopped texting him so we stopped talking for a good two months,but then out of no where he texted me one day. I started talking to him again and we actually made plans to hang out but when the time came to hanging out he was "busy"....something had come up or he had forgot he had to do something that day......so I want to know if he wasn't interested why did he contact me after so long and then ask me to hang out??? Does he feel bad???.... A few weeks later I actually asked him to hang out 1 night and after two hours he called me and then texted me and said he couldn't but the next day he would be able 2...so I told him to call me but he never did......tomorrow never came...I'm so confused what do you guys think??..help
Update: A few days ago he called and asked me what I was doing. I told him I was goin out with my friends so he told me to call him later. I never did. do you guys think he is interested??
8 months ago
I think he is only a desperate guy who thinks that you manipulated him before. In another word played games with him the time you were busy and he asked you a lot to go out. In my opinion, forget about him. As those two ladies said. He doesn't deserve you and used the Fading Away Technique "Damn I liked it. Hehehe" to show you that he can do the same to you.
If he was really interested in you he would probably understand that you were busy for a reason and that he would be ready to be with you the moment you ask him to go out when you get free.
He's not interested. Keep doing what your doing enjoy spending time with your friends and soon enough you will be dating and hanging out with the right guy!
I think he is doing the fading away technique. I hate to say this but he seem not interested. Most guys cannot bear to hurt girls. It's better for them to even be at fault than hurt a girl's feeling. Forget about him, if he really wants to go out with you he'll find ways to make it possible, if he doesn't he'll come up with so many excuses. That's how they are.
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