Ok my so called boyfriend says that he can't date me for a while because he is going to Minnesota for a while (he used to live there) and when I asked y he said it was because he didn't know what would happen there with girls and stuff and I asked what the hell kind of stuff would happen and he said that he has an ex that he had to break up with just because he moved and stuff and that he mite make out with her because she said she wanted to and what I'm wondering if I should even deal with that he says he loves me but I don't believe him now that he told me this should I stay with him after he comes back?
Update: oh I didn't mention either that he told me this over texting
8 months ago
Update: he won't talk to me rite now because he thinks I over reacted (that's what I'm thinking) what do you think I should do because I just wanna know y he would do something like that to me and I want him to answer but he won't talk to me! its bugging me
8 months ago
Cant tell you to break up or not because its ur relationship but it seems like he is playing a massive field here meaning that he is just tryna keep a girl in each place and him telling you that is a bit on the dumb side if he is tryin to be a player but nobody that loves you would do sumthin like that to you no matter where they go and then for him to tell you that is mad crazy.
wow. that sounds like an asshole move, if you don't mind me saying. to answer your question: yes, you should go there. if he didn't already leave i would have a serious talk about what kind of relationship he thinks he's in. someone that "loves" you wouldn't even think about other girls and the possibility of cheating on you. as for breaking up, that's all up to you.
Yea I don't mind you saying that. he won't even talk to me anymore after I freaked out I don't know y because it was his fault I should be the one to mad to even speak to him - 8 months ago
well thre are two side. you should some what love him or even teling you this so you know of corse he will come back telling you the truth if he did or didn't kiss her. an d he is not worth dating if he even told you because that would kill me like hell. well like what anikaj said, its your reationship and we dcant do anything about it, its up to you, but me saying " its up to you" isn't helpin I know xD I so I say... say ok to him, tell him ok we don't have to be a couple for now. and callhim now and than but make sure he calls you first if he doesn't call you bu the next week he has been there or the next week iand a half than call him, check up on him and ask question but fakely act loveing. this whole timehe is in Minn. your testing him and once he comes bakc you'll make your desion. I say he calls you or textes you by week or the firt 2 days than that means he misses you, but if he does kiss her than I say its over, sorry but if my guys kisses his ex. I would leave him. "im sorry I love you dude but if you sya you love me you won't have done that in the first place. you should have ben smart and when you see her reaching for your lips yu should have stoped her. there is no way I'm kissing your lis after you just kissed another girls lips I'm sorry its over" that's exactly what I would say in his face, if he tells you or you know he is leiin than he is not worth your heart beacus he is mostly going to do it again, and amke him feel the pain the same pain he gave you, give him pain 100times more. beacuse I think girls are awsome and rulers. not doormats that we can just be walked and and than forgive. hell no f***ing way sorry xD but yea. I won't allow it from my dude! idc how hot you are or cute or nice you should thnk about me.. well hope this helps xD
It did kill me when he said that I freaked out on him which I totally regret doing because I never got to ask him y he would even think agout doing that to me if he loved me lik he says he does which bugs me even more that I don't kno why - 8 months ago
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Welll I'm young too and I guess were just scard tohave our hearts broken as well, but yea I think now is what you should what you think is right - 8 months ago
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