basically I'm just wondering what is it about some girls that seem to always have a boyfriend there are some girls out there that have had a boyfriend from a very early age, and then there are the other girls who just don't seem to have the same luck, I see all kinds of girls , with very diff. personalities and looks, in relationships and wonder is it something I'm doing wrong?
no its nothing wrong you're doin at least I don't think unless there are things you do around a guys when you nervous or something.but here is what I look for can this girl keep a secret trust worthy and trusts me if I say she doesn't argue with me about it would never cheat personality looks if she is a gold digger if she is superficial since I can get mad quick I need a girl who is calm good sense of humor if she can cook(but that's just something I like but would never base not talking to girl on that) is not a liar if the money is comin in she doesn't ask how or why and the girls you're talkin about that seem to never have a relationship problem that's just from the outside looking in one thing I know is if you haven't had many bf'sthen at least you don't need someone the girls you're talkin bout are girls who can't be single they need that man to keep them stable so just know most of those girls have other problems that they might look at you and say why isn't it like that for her
Some girls just meet guys that they connect with. Some girls don't. Some girls are too picky, some arent. There are more women on the planet than men but not all men are even worth the time while some guys that would have been perfect for some lucky girl never gets the time of day. So it's really not about what we look for it's what YOU look for, and what efforts you make to get it.
You don't have to change to attract guys! You are a girl, you were made for it! lol
Just smile, and take care about your wealth. A guy will show for you, only have to wait, and pay attention for the opportunities, sometimes your love is already near by.
All guys want something different, so don't try to change yourself to get a guy to like you, because then you arnt your self and you're unhappy. Instead concentrate on interacting with guys that like what you like, be friendly towards them, be confident, be clean (you know, unless you're into dirty things of course) and keep a sesnse of humor or no one will want to hang around you let alone want to date you. You might also benefit from researching flirting signals for both sexes so you recognize cues, and know which ones to give out.
I seriously doubt you're doing anything wrong. Most of attraction is subjective. The things people are attracted to are different regardless of who you are or how you act. It's really like puzzle pieces and chance. It's not something that can be perfectly controlled. Think of it this way. A certain kind of person attracts certain others and is attracted to a few kinds of people. It's dependent on the individual. If you don't have a boyfriend, you shouldn't really be blamed, you just haven't found a good match for yourself, or there aren't any good matches around. Some people just get lucky with how many types of people are attracted to them or how many are around.
its hard to say, everyone is different. I've had the same problem as you though and wonder the same things in vice versa, but I guess some people are just lucky like that.
usually I look for a girl I can feel comftorble with, talk to, make her laugh. If she's pretty, it's a plus, but I usually look for someone I can relate to on a personal level. But that's just me. if you want a general answer here goes:
i think guys first off look for how hot a girl is. I hate to say it but that's the way most of us are. they'll approach the hot girl, and ask her out. THEN find out if hse has a nice personality or not. If the girl is watned by other guys, it will also increase her 'hotness' and desirability (i.e. celebrities) not just because it makes guys think it's like the thing they can't have, but also for bragging rights. DUDE I'M DATING BLAH BLAH . so yeah...
Guy like a girl that they can hang out with and have fun whether they are alone or if they are in a group. Guys are also pretty shallow, it varies from guy to guy but ezch guy has a standard that you have to be as good looking or better looking than, and personalitiy is a plus. We also like girls that are into the things that we are into, that way we always have something t talk about. That's all I can think of right now, but I'm sure my fellow guys will gladly imput their own opinions.
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