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This guy sounds exactly like me! His quietness could mean many things, but it might be that he is very nervous and doesn't know what to do next, or he is afraid of making too aggressive of a move that will ruin the relationship that you 2 have thus far. In situations like this that I've been in, this sort of friendly but awkward interaction has a lot to do with neither side giving an obvious enough sign that they are interested and view each others timidness as a sign that they are not comfortable with you to the point of wanting to turn things in a more intimate direction. I have a feeling that your sort of playing into the timidness as well and not feeling confident that he feels the same way about you that you feel towards him. I think you should just go for it, you should make the first move, cause you know he is a guy, he'll probably reciprocate at least on a physical level. As for the issue of longevity and the potential of a real relationship, you won't ever know what his intentions are until you actually break the tension (i.e. have sex or go as far as your willing to go). It will be after that point where his words, actions and behavior will be honest and not burdened by doubt and uncertainty and that's when you can honestly judge whether or not this guy is right for you. But the fact that he is spending time with you without pushing the issue aggressively probably means that he really does like you, he just doesn't know how to say it. Thats why its up to you to make the move cause otherwise your relationship will probably fizzle out cause you'll both become fatigued by the stresses your causing each other by not revealing your true feelings.
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