My boyfriend never says cute things or tells me I'm beautiful or anything like that... He is really affectionate when we're together (like, holds my hand, kisses me and stuff) but never says anything... He hasn't even told me he likes me...but we're official...I don't get it. Guys, what is he thinking?
Some guys are just like that... They don't realized that they need to say those things, and how they make you feel. If someonw could let him know what the deal is... he do whatever to please you... Just be patient... You love is on the way...
hes determined not to play the nice guy act. he's leaving that margain of uncertainty for you to dwell on. guys realize that a lot of girls don't much like to be flattereed and complimented all of the time. they sometimes see it as weakness, and see that they have the upper hand. sadly a lot of guys get dumped for trying too hard. he just wants you to question his interest, hoping that you'll feel you have to prove yourself. some women like the challenge, and he may assume you are one of them. just talk to him and tell him you feel unappreciated in ways. as in any relationship, communication is the key. tell him the occasional compliment or gesture would go a long way. I suck at relationships but I hope I could help, best of luck : )
Thanks :) I do compliment him and then he says "You too" but never initiates it.
I love him in spite of that though, I wouldn't change him for the world, but a nice compliment here and there would be nice. Could he be doing it so he doesn't get hurt? Like, trying not to put himself "out there" too much? - 3 months ago
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I doubt it. he just has this idea that the less affectionate he is , the more desirable he is. which isn't true in your case. some women like the challenge of not being fully appreciated, so they try harder. a lot of guys don't want to try too hard, because theyve seen that too much effort is a bad thing. he's probably afraid that if he treats you too well he will lose you. I've made the mistake of trying too hard and it couldn't have ended worse. but maybe he doesn't know how to open up. who knows? - 3 months ago
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That's true. Oh, and would age have anything to do with it? He's 7years older then me. I guess he just doesn't wanna loose me then...which is a nice feeling :) - 3 months ago
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