Taste in girls is my downfall?

The problem may not be the shy/quiet girls. It could be because you're attracted to the challenge of getting that shy and quiet girl. By putting so much energy into building that relationship, once it's built, you lose interest because there's no challenge left. I'm not sure going out with the outgoing girls is going to help you, because there would be no challenge whatsoever.

Being 15 years old, and having this set type of girl that you prefer is limiting your options in the first place, and then putting so much energy into creating that relationship with those girls is limiting your options even further. The next time you're interested in a girl, and are trying to start that relationship, don't put too much energy into it.

If a girl knows that a guy is doing all the work to make a relationship, she won't try in return. She'll just sit back and wait for him to come to her. She needs to put in some effort as well.

If that doesn't work, then maybe expand your horizons to a different type of shy girl. Instead of the "cute and shy girl" or the "smart and cute girl", try the sporty girl who's quiet in class or in the hall. Sometimes those girls are overlooked because they spend so much time on their sport.

Hope this helps.

I think you should just go for the type or person that you like... You can't make yourself like someone, and if you do make yourself like someone, then the relationship won't last. And since you're only 15, lots of relationships won't last anyways, so maybe its not the girl or the type or what you're doing wrong, it's just what happens at your age.

I added you on msn. I think that you shouldn't go against your heart and I think that you should stick to the kind of girls you like! The only thing I would do is ask them what kind of stuff they think that a good boyfriend would do, that way you are not left down in the dumps, you guys would be going stronger for longer!

1) as mentioned by others, at your age, really don't limit yourself to a type,
As I've gone out into the world/grown up/ etc so to speak I've deffinatly branched out the types of people I've had crushes on from the people I did at 15. One kinda quirky thing I do sometimes is I'll honestly think about what it be like to be in a relationship with someone I'm not all out attracted to, pros/cons/random/whatever. I've found it to give a little more depth and perseptive on what I really like in people

2)I wouldn't start going after the "easier" to date girls just because they're easier to date. If you walk yourself into an in depth relationship with someone you're not really into, its asking for some serious drama down the road. (Granted, keeping pt 1 in mind, don't use types as a limitation) All relationships take work, and work, and effort. The quiets might seem to take more effort off the bat, but in the long run, it all becomes even.

3) kinda on the aside here, don't let being single make you miserable. Get a hobby or instrument or volunteer or something you can be passionate about. Makes you more interesting :P

I think that you should go for girls that your interested it. Also, just because a girl is outgoing or smart and cute doesn't mean she is a slut. I'm smart, cute, and outgoing and I would rather be in a long term relationship. I hate the whole dating scene. Its confusing, aggravating, and you never know what the other person really wants. When I find a good guy I stick with him and I'm very faithful. So you just need to find the right girl that fits all your needs. She is out there so don't worry you will find her. Your young so you have plenty of time. Most people your age don't know what they want so you may find a girl you like, but she isn't sure if you're what she's looking for. So just be patient and you will find someone. That's all I can say.

Keep with your taste, don't go for slutty girls because then you don't know how real the relationship is, lots of them are fake and often kinda dumb

It also has to do with age, so because you are 15 the shy girls are still shy, and they take their time building a relationship. As the next year or to progresses you'll notice they will loosen up a bit and be more open minded so don't worry!

Keep with your taste, don't go for slutty girls because then you don't know how real the relationship is, lots of them are fake and often kinda dumb

It also has to do with age, so because you are 15 the shy girls are still shy, and they take their time building a relationship. As the next year or to progresses you'll notice they will loosen up a bit and be more open minded so don't worry!

Well I'm that type of girl shy and quiet. The thing about us is you need to start things off slow get to really know the girl so you can see if you really like her and if she really likes you and once you have built a solid type of relationship and you both feel the same way about each other ask her out but even then things should be slow (Unless she says otherwise). Usually these types of girls are looking for long term relationships... the important thing is taking things slow because they/we tend to be quiet and therefore not very open.

I say keep who your attracted to me I don't even know what I'm really attracted to at time it seems random only thing seems to be girls that a from a dark race but are very light skinned but seems like you have a problem similar to mine I have meet The the actual I have only dreamt of and she has keep my interest but something happen and now I've lost all interest in being with her I because of everything that has happen, but I am amused with the story Born in a town with no attraction to anyone and believes I'm will never love a girl, or even like anyone to have more than one person to be consider a friend and end up dreaming up a girl saying that's what I'm looking for in a person and than to meet that dream girl in real life and make it to the point where I fall for her and only to have a a non considered friend who claims himself as your best friend destroy your interest in her all because you said no not today I'm not in a good mood. Although I can't feel anything for her anymore I rally did like the feeling back then well its on to dream girl # 2 who the exact same as her.

dude I got the same taste in girls the shy and quiet type sooooo tips start slow make friends with her friend uhhhh hang out with her , try to get her attention that is the hard part do it without blundering or making yourself look awful and it always help to have an wingman


p.s. don't be impatient take your time trust me I got my dream girl so why shouldnt you

Well at ur age most of the relationships will fall apart. The thing you need to ask yourelf is whether you want to work hard for a good girl who you might not work out with, or start dating sluts and your relationship can end REALLY quick.