I've been seeing this guy for a month now and I'm not sure exactly where our relationship stands. I heard from a friend of his who asked him "So are you guys dating or just friends" and he said that he likes me more than a friend, but he doesn't know if he wants a relationship with me yet since he still doesn't know me that well. What does that mean? For me it's always been I'm either dating that guy or we are just friends or I never talk to him, there's no gray area between a friend and dating to me. I'm confused as to what does this mean? Also, our relationship is pretty innocent, we just kiss and stuff but no sex or anything.
Welcome to limboland. I live here! this happens to me all the time. in fact it is happening to me now. I spend time with a friend I adore, we kiss, we had sex, I want to date, she says yes , but we never go out. Good luck. :)!
He might have issues that he needs to work out before fully committing to a relationship with you. He might not feel the vibe as that of a relation but a friendship. He might be one of those shy guys who really takes his steps carefully and all measured. It could be all sorts of possiblities. I would say just go with the flow if you like it and if you are curious enough. If someone else comes along the way, I would say don't waste your chances either.
That's the same situation I'm stuck in right now. Well I'm actually kind of going with a flow, even I don't like it, but I like the guy, however in any way if I meet another guy, who would impress me and would take advantage of me and him to be in a relationship, I wouldn't hesitate. I'd say the other one just missed his chance.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal date would be me and my crush would walk on the beach and go to a restaurant near the beach. I'd be wearing a black skirt and a sexy black shirt and a pink handbag with blackish/pinkish short healed shoes. The date ends by him walking me to my door and giving me a kiss which I'd remember forever. :)
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know that I like him and I'm a funny person and a person of his type. I enjoyed my time and that I want to do it again soon.
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 6 months ago
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