I hung out with this girl last august. And it was great it was basically we were perfect for each other. Then some guy asked her out before me and so months floated on. Eventually they broke up and we started talking again but we never hung out. And now she just seems really distant. And I feel attracted to her still I waited for her after all, but I can't find any common ground anymore. I'm worried she gave up on me and it sucks because I want to start talking again like we used to but it just doesn't work anymore. I know I should probably "move on" but this girl is different I guess she made such an impression on me that its hard for me to see her as anything but perfect. I just needed to vent and I guess get some input.
Sounds like your relationship was too short for her to form any real feelings for you. I mean if you only hung out for a month about a year ago, that's not a lot. Have you asked her on a date? Maybe if you can get back together, you and her can both decide if it even feels right anymore. I mean, right now, you are living on a vision from the past. What if she has changed since then, you have to find out if she really is still as perfect as you once thought.
Well how long ago did her and her boyfriend breakup? If it was recently then maybe she isn't ready to date yet. I am going through that right now and I think after a breakup ( especially if she was the one who got dumped) a person needs to be alone for a little bit to get back to what makes them great. You don't want to be a rebound guy because then your chances of it lasting are limited. If they broke up awhile ago, or if she is the one who dumped him, then ask her to coffee or something, start slow and get a feel for how she acts.
Last august. Well its been a little while, especially if you're connection lasted less than a month. I'm a fan of being straightforward. Just ask her if she's still interested in you.
I like this guy at my work and we've been flirting a lot , but now he has a gf. I work with him 3-4 days a week and I can't change my schedule because...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner at some where like TGI Fridays or Buffalo Wild Wings. A pair of my aberbrcombie jeans and maybe a slim t-shirt or dress shirt from express. With so Nike Air Max or dress shoes. Maybe a invite to the house to watch a movie if night a hug or kiss. But always tell them to call me if they have to drive 40 mins or more so to see if they got home ok.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
What I do for fun. What kind of job I got and what I do day to day. And some of my important goals in life.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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